Just Not Going To Work!

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Originally Posted by Janet

Thanks V, I appreciate your advice. I did say I was "done" and really I want to be "done", but I don't think I really am. It's just so hard trying to climb a ladder that never ends. Her health isn't the greatest now anyway...maybe if I try harder...I don't know...I don't think my feelings will change, but maybe if I at least keep trying....I won't have any regrets. I'm just sooo tired....

Girl my cousin was just saying the same words to me not 6 months ago....the reason I said what I did is her mom died just 3 weeks ago and I spent Christmas day with her - she broke down 3 times talking about how she regrets her feelings....it was so hard to see - She's the strongest one in my family out of all the girls and she's coping the worst now. I don't want you to go thru that same thing.

HUGS TO YOU - you can only do your best and one thing I learned a long time ago - don't expect much from people & especially family ..... then you won't be dissapointed