What about porn?

[cindy0721]

Originally Posted by rivermom

You might have not understood what I meant by this sentance. I was not referring it to "watching/reading porn". I was directing this sentence towards a woman who does not accept herself as a sexual being. A "sexual being" does not mean one who watches porn, yet a woman who is not ashamed of or embarrassed about feeling sexual, having desires, okay with her body and how she or her partner makes her feel, etc."

Well I see your point and thank you for it.. I agree with you in someways... I am very ok with my sexual being and I cannot say hubby and I have a horrible sex life because to be honest we please each other very well... I think we have a great connection in bed amongst other things.... but I do agree with you ladies on the fact that there are WORSE things to live with, I cannot discredit him too much, he is a great husband in many ways and my best friend , I just have to accept that there is no such perfect man out there and that I am lucky enough to only have this quirk of his that I disagree with , not any drinking,drug addictions amongst other vices as well. I know he loves me and I am going to have to learn to look the other way.... maybe embrace Becca's policy on the don't ask don't tell... You know we have been married 5 years this June .... it still amazes me that it took us this long to hit this BIG of a stump... is this usual?