new friend... or not

[Chandra Amaya]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

I know I need to hang on to the friends who have always been around for me, but I really really wish for some girl friends here in my city. The only girl friends I have live hours away and it's so hard sometimes to even get them on the phone because we all have our busy lives. I guess I just jumped the gun with this new girl because I wanted a friend here so badly...

aww I understand what you mean. I have made several "friends" just because they lived near me. I have found one good one & several that were a waste of time.

[Lindsey]

I've got quite a few guy friends here, and they're great to hang out with. They just aren't the kind of people I can cry in front of, and talk about how badly my heart is broken. And really, that's all I want to vent about right now. I've done a lot of venting here already, and I know that I should be over it and I thought I was for awhile but I think I was just denying to myself that it still hurt. I opened up and spilled everything to this girl on the first night we met! I need to be more careful about who i trust.

[Chandra Amaya]

that's so hard to do though when you just need someone to talk to. I have no friends here either. When you have 4 kids people stop wanting to come visit you. That's one reason I was so glad Angie told me about 4WT. It helps tremendously but its still not quite the same.

[Gina]

Lindsey I agree with the other ladies, you have to disassociate yourself real soon, You will get a reputation hanging out with her, she is not a moral person if she slept with that many guys and she is only 23 yrs. old. This girl has big issues, I think that she is using sex to hide something in her life. She slept with your brother knowing him one night, imagine if you are dating someone , would you trust her? If you don't want to continue to stay with her just be upfront and tell her that you don't want to go away with her and for now that you are busy. Let her off easy without hurting her feelings.

[Lindsey]

I am horrible at confronting people. I always want everyone to like me, and I know I shouldn't let myself be walked over my whole life but it's tough to change.