What would you do?

[Mandy]

The plan was that he would spend the weekend at he's friends house, but i'll speak to him about going to my Mom's on saterday night.

My husband told me, to let him go to the concert, he's only young once, but i don't want to upset anyone

[magnolia]

My vote would be to also let him go to the concert. He's not a "little boy" any longer and, as hard as it is for us parents to accept (mine are 16 and 13), there comes a time that doing things with their friends is more important than anything else. If your mom lives in town, then he can visit with her anytime - I would view this differently if she lived out of town and you were traveling to spend the week-end with her. As your husband said, he's only going to be young once! If Saturday won't work, take him Friday night or Monday night.