Rather complicated

[goofywife]

Wow, what a sad situation. It sounds like she needs some help. In our family everyone pulls there weight. Whether it is to get a job and make money or have responsibilities around the house. It sounds like she does not have any direction and everyone is allowing her to stay that way.

She needs a plan. In order to make a plan, she needs to decide what she wants to do. It is time for someone to have some frank conversations with her and her set some goals to get out on her own and stand on her oen two feet. It doesn't have to be ulgy, but it has to be a united front with everyone in the house understanding what has to happen and stick to it.

Maybe your Pastor could help too.

Good luck.