Would you have allowed Bill Gates to be born?

[DianaB]

--It seems like everything I try to write today sounds choppy, so bear with me. I'll blame it on hormones, like I always do!!!--

I don't believe abortion is the answer to our problems because I believe that in having one it just opens the door to other problems. In finding out that an unborn baby has down's syndrome or is autistic is no reason to jump to the conclusion of abortion. There are so many varying degrees of these problems. Some people with Down's syndrome can actually function pretty normally, while some can have minimal function. The same is true with autism. I know it's hard to have children with these problems but these kids are usually a blessing to those who are around them.

I had a great aunt who had Down's syndrome and was just the sweetest person. She was mentally about the age of 6-7 years old and she lived with her sister, who also was a foster parent for several other's with Down's syndrome. So I was around several kids.

Bill Gates is a wonderful example of why we shouldn't turn to abortion so we can have the "perfect" child. I'm sure that his mother has no regrets.

[Tink]

One thing I've always been proud of in my little town is the way our community includes people with "differences". We have had several kids with downs syndrome and other disorders born and grow up here and they're as much a part of the community as anyone else. Several have been able to help on city sports teams, are included in all sorts of jobs in community events, and they're looked out for by all of us.
Jimmy was one of 7 kids, and is in his 40's now, with abilities of about a 6 yr old. His parents have now passed, and he lives with one of his sisters. He can usually be found walking around town just visiting with people.
Sherry is everybodies sweetheart. She has an uncanny ability to remember names and faces. She makes sure to hug you hello and goodbye and always asks about your family members. She likes to hang out at the pool and parks and helps with the younger kids.
Amy passed a couple years ago from heart problems. She was in her late 40's and had one of the largest turn outs I've ever seen at a funeral. She always had a smile on her face and was SO happy to see you. I'm sure she made a lot of peoples days better over the years just by being herself.

I don't think anyone sees any of them as a burden or unworthy of life. If those thoughts were voiced, I'm sure they'd be shot down quickly by others who value the hugs and smiles we've gotten.

[judy]

I agree with all of you. I don't personally believe that abortion is right, but I do believe in choice. I don't want to impose my values on others in that area. I believe that life begins at conception, but not everybody does, and what others do is their business.

I also have had students with Asperger's and a few autistic children (one went to college because he was so nurtured and loved by his family and teachers!), at least one young man with cerebral palsy, several mentally retarded students, and lots of
students with "special needs," which covers a gamut of disabilities. My own daughter has MS. I have loved each one of these children (well - maybe I could have spent less time with some of the more difficult behavior problems, but usually that's the life of a teacher).

The world would NOT be a better place if all "imperfections" were genetically bred out. I always felt these kids are called "special" because they are, and they are a gift to us so that we can expand our hearts and learn to love those we might not connect with immediately. In the end, we become better people, and that is the blessing we are given.

[Mandy]

I agree with all of you. Special people hold a special place in this world, i have a lot of time for them!