What would you do?

[judy]

That's the thing - I don't think your very good intentions would be appreciated either.
Obviously you can't tend to their garden. I'm so sorry you've had all of these things happen to your health. I just wonder if it's really a good thing to let them tend to it.
They won't appreciate it, they'll more than likely do damage in some way to your property, and it's not going to work out well for you.

That being said, do you still do the "right thing?" I'm just not sure what I would do.
Sometimes, there's a fine line between turning the other cheek and accepting abuse
which is not good for you or for them.

In other words, if you let them into the garden, are you being an enabler or a good person?