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Old 06-29-2007, 01:44 PM   #1
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Janet's point of view has a lot of validity to it. He may not tell the truth! She will.
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Old 06-29-2007, 02:40 PM   #2
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Hi and welcome!

The ladies have given you some good solid advice. All I can add to as Diana mentioned is first how long are you married? It can be an innocent friendship, but by doing what he has done brings doubt. If you confront him he will deny it, by asking her you may get an answer. Are you ready to face the reality of this? Once you open a can of worms it may get nasty. Good luck and keep us posted..
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Old 06-29-2007, 05:50 PM   #3
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I'm sorry that you are in this situation. That must be really difficult. The ladies have given you some really great advice, as Gina said. I hope things work out for you. Also, I hope you enjoy the forum. There are many wonderful women here.
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Old 06-29-2007, 10:25 PM   #4
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I am really sorry that you are facing this. My initial thought is, if you have confrunted him already about this 'friend' of his, and he has blown it off, and told you it's nothing (even though it doesn't sound like nothing) he's not going to tell you the truth if you have a nice sit down talk with him. It's hard to judge, not knowing him, but from what you have described, I doubt it's an innocent friendship. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. Better to get out sooner than later, and just know that he's not worth your time if he would do such a thing to you.
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Old 06-30-2007, 03:00 AM   #5
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Old 06-30-2007, 05:41 PM   #6
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OK I have to be honest, you are already handling it better than I would!! I would be hunting her down and beating the truth out of her!! (not a good idea BTW!) but I can understand being jealous and angry and suspicious and hurt.

I concur with the ladies who have already posted. Call her and ask her what is going on, but personally, I think the fact that you found Hottie with her number after it as a big sign.
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Old 06-30-2007, 06:11 PM   #7
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I think Ataloss had given up on us and has not checked back in. Hope she does. I think she needs us. She must have been desperate to post here they way she did. We're thinking of you, Ata...
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