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Old 09-23-2007, 09:01 AM   #1
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Maybe you could write him a letter and really pour your heart out to him. Sometimes our men don't realize the importance of what we say to them, but if you wrote a letter, you could really highlight what the problem is and how it makes you feel.

That's how I do it when talking gets me nowhere. A letter can be read alone and the reactions aren't bounced off on you. He can absorb what you say in his own time, and then when you do talk about it, there's a lot less defensiveness and, hopefully more communication.

It also does take time to get accustomed to babies, and real life. Marriage is a lot of work and has lots of ups and downs. Relax and enjoy the baby. Let him do what he needs to do for a while. You'll never have this time with the baby again. They grow so fast. You can talk to him any time!

What is this website? Now, I'm curous.
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Yikes! I went to that forum. I got scared. I am a huge nerd and even I got scared!
Angie, we haven't peaked at nerdines yet.
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Old 09-24-2007, 06:16 AM   #3
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Yikes! I went to that forum. I got scared. I am a huge nerd and even I got scared!
Angie, we haven't peaked at nerdines yet.
which forum?? did i miss something?
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Old 09-24-2007, 08:38 AM   #4
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which forum?? did i miss something?

The UBUNTU forum. Check it out - you can smell the testosterone!

Ang - tell Brendon that until he wears a pocket protector he actually hasn't peaked, but he's oh so close!

(I'd love to wear one in my tight jeans pocket with my black boots on - now there's a confusing look!)
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Old 09-24-2007, 02:07 PM   #5
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I don't know what this UBUNTU is...so give be a clue...directions or just tell me to not worry about it...LOL
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Old 09-25-2007, 08:01 AM   #6
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Absolutely don't worry about it. Never give it another thought! It has something to do with highly technical, testosterone laden, computer factoids. Nothing we need
to live the whole rest of our lives.
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Old 09-25-2007, 07:01 PM   #7
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Absolutely don't worry about it. Never give it another thought! It has something to do with highly technical, testosterone laden, computer factoids. Nothing we need
to live the whole rest of our lives.
LOL, well said Judy! Aye, that poor boy lives on Ubuntu forums. He wants you to know Judy that he will one day reach the peak of nerdiness...and today he went one step further. His new major is Computer Science... Someday I'll post a picture of him wearing a pocket protector! LOL!
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The UBUNTU forum. Check it out - you can smell the testosterone!

Ang - tell Brendon that until he wears a pocket protector he actually hasn't peaked, but he's oh so close!

(I'd love to wear one in my tight jeans pocket with my black boots on - now there's a confusing look!)
Judy--ask Brendon how big of a nerd he is now?
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Judy--ask Brendon how big of a nerd he is now?
hahaha, you found the old thread. Judy, as a gag gift, Mom bought Brendon a pack of pocket protectors for Christmas. It was hilarious. I guess he's peaked in nerdiness now! LOL
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hahaha, you found the old thread. Judy, as a gag gift, Mom bought Brendon a pack of pocket protectors for Christmas. It was hilarious. I guess he's peaked in nerdiness now! LOL
That's sooo funny!!! Brendon has now arrived!!!!!
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Old 09-24-2007, 06:57 AM   #11
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Yikes! I went to that forum. I got scared. I am a huge nerd and even I got scared!
Angie, we haven't peaked at nerdines yet.
Judy, Brenny says there's no greater compliment than to say he's "peaked at nerdiness"! LOL! He thinks he still has a long way to go though...

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which forum?? did i miss something?
I think she went to Ubuntu forums.
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Now what the heck is a UBUNTU forum LOL.... talk about thick... i got a whole PLANK infront of me LMAO! Oh Lordy


Yup, i dont the letter before, wrote it for him, and put it in hes lunchbox.... to my surprise "he got it" LOL
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