Aaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by toodles

we have always had a WONDERFUL friendship...with little to no bumps in the road. so this is kinda catching me off guard. but we will be fine. still some more talking to do but we will get it all out and be ok I love her more than any friend i have ever known...we will fix this

Sounds like you're going about this in just the right way. A friendship, especially a good one, is too important to just give up over something small.

[judy]

I read a beautiful line in one of Wally Lamb's books, "Never give away love."

Keep trying and just do your best.

Good luck and I really hope it works out well.

[katepoet]

Sounds like you are taking the risk and putting it out there - how brave! Sometimes friends do have to be confronted with the truth in order for them to get it together. I haven't done that in a long time - it seems as we all get older we are less likely to consider changing when a friend hits us upside the head - but it sounds like you have a good chance of her coming back to you with her truth.

[DianaB]

I'm glad that you had a little talk with her. If she's a friend that you want to keep you have to keep hard feelings from ruining your friendship. It sounds like she could definitely use a friend right now so I'm glad that you're there for her. Keep up the good work!