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[katepoet]

My father went to a seniors community in FL, my sisters M-in-L to one in NJ and both had a great time. There was a center for the performing arts in Dad's community. Both had shuttles to every concert, shopping center, etc. Pearl went dancing almost every night I thought. Not saying you should do a senior condo, just saying that some of these communities really cook! Lots of fun without all the responsibility, lots of community with private space essential. I'm sure you'll pick a good one.