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[rivermom]

Tink - You are seeing that light at the end of the tunnel!! I am so happy for you how it's all working out. I am also thrilled you are receiving such support for your efforts too!!!

What a great day this is for you!!!!!

That was nice about the Christmas tree you gave. A little touch of home and I am sure Katie finds this really special.

Now sit back in that recliner with a cup of cocoa (or spiked egg nog) and breath a HUGE sigh of relief!!

[Tink]

Thanks all!

Actually I bought a small bottle of J Bavet and plan to just relax and unwind tonight.
I almost never drink, so one or 2 will more than do the trick. LOL

I didn't talk with Joel today 'cause he was up late, running around ornery already, and I just didn't want to fight with him. I've already told him what my dr said... but he doesn't know about the deadline yet. I'm sure he'll be the one to get mouthy and defensive about it if any do. If he gets too bad I'll just shorten the deadline. I know he has a place to go. so wouldn't feel too bad about it either.

[Gina]

Tink I applaud your husband for standing ground with the kids on your behalf. You will finally be able to enjoy the solitude of your home again. Great early Christmas present...

[Tink]

Thanks Gina, it is nice to have dh support me in this. Most of the time I feel lucky to have him. LOL

I did get to talk with Joel last night. I don't think he understands how "he" could possibly be stressing me out by living here. LOL Yes, the others bug him too, but HIM? LOL Sometimes I just have to laugh at him.

I did give him the deadline of the first of the year. He told me there's no way he will be able to set aside enough cash for a deposit and rent in 2 weeks and still make his car payment and such on time. So I pointed out he won't need a deposit or huge rent upfront if he takes Shannon up on her offer to stay with her and split the rent 3 ways. Since I was prepared to counter his objections, he just got really quiet.

So the wheels are set in motion and the countdown's begun.

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by Tink

Thanks Gina, it is nice to have dh support me in this. Most of the time I feel lucky to have him. LOL

I did get to talk with Joel last night. I don't think he understands how "he" could possibly be stressing me out by living here. LOL Yes, the others bug him too, but HIM? LOL Sometimes I just have to laugh at him.

I did give him the deadline of the first of the year. He told me there's no way he will be able to set aside enough cash for a deposit and rent in 2 weeks and still make his car payment and such on time. So I pointed out he won't need a deposit or huge rent upfront if he takes Shannon up on her offer to stay with her and split the rent 3 ways. Since I was prepared to counter his objections, he just got really quiet.

So the wheels are set in motion and the countdown's begun.

Good for you Tink! I'm so glad you are standing up for yourself. Your Joel sounds so sweet! "Who? Me?" lol

[DianaB]

Stand your ground, Tink!! Everything's going to work out!

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by DianaB

Stand your ground, Tink!! Everything's going to work out!

Every child must leave the nest sooner or later. Ok, so in your case it's the later Tink, LOL.

My hair dresser was just telling me yesterday she gave her son a deadline also for the end of this month. Looks like there's a few Mom's sitting back in that recliner sipping on something relaxing and comforting!!

Thumbs up to the Mom's out there getting their houses back for the new year!!!!