Kissing issues

Originally Posted by Ponyup

My husband doesn't like to kiss. And personally he's not the greatest kisser either but, it's better now. I miss those people you could just kiss for hours & he's just not into that. No one will be perfect & you have to decide what you are willing to live without. All my hubby's wonderful qualities totally out weighed his short comings in the kissing department & now it's totally a non-issue. However if you are making him feel like he's undesirable or doing something wrong the two of you need to try & work it out or he'll just get more hurt & perhaps distant. I'm with janet; try & figure out what the problem is & then fix it. Men can learn. My hubby was an aweful kisser when we met, but I've changed my style & he changed his & now we get on pretty well when we do it now it's nice. But you have to tell him what's up or you'll hurt his feelings.

Same with me, my bf's good qualities outweighs the fact that we dont really kiss. I don't make him feel like he is undesirable or anything like that, i just pull away sometimes if he wants to full on kiss, like i will peck him a lot but to make out i don't like to with him. I will occasionally do it but not all the time. I guess it's not that big an issue for him, just for me. But it's something i can live without or learn to love it later on. He is a great guy so the fact that we don't kiss is not such a big deal, i just question if it will affect our relationship later on, we only have about 2 yrs together. Everything else is good. Thanks!