Sleeping issues?

[DianaB]

Originally Posted by Janet

Have you talked with your Dr. about this? I did take Ambien at one time and it worked great for me. Others have said it had awful side effects, but I can't remember what they said they were.

Isn't Ambien what Sheryl was on and it made her sleepwalk? She would go outside. Scary!!!

Sorry that you're having trouble sleeping. The only thing that I do when I'm having trouble falling asleep is to relax, start counting backwards from 100, and think of a beautiful, peaceful place. Each count goes with each breath you take. Breath in, breath out, one, breath in, breath out, two, and so on. It's suppose to occupy each side of your brain so you can relax and fall asleep.

[pearl]

ambien is know for having a "hangover," feeling dopey and sleepy for awhile in the morning.

[pope1982]

Try to errr.... exercise... vigorously before bedtime, or smoking "funny cigarettes" will always help you to sleep soundly

It's hard when your mind keeps going after your body is ready to quit for the day

Sorry guys! I'm still getting used to the format and I couldn't remember where I posted this question so I could come back to it! I'm such a lost cause, lol!

Thanks everyone for the advice! I'm just going nuts with this. I'm finding myself taking things just to make me drowsy, like cough medicine, and that worries me because I did that in high school and I think I got hooked on nyquil...yikes! I've tried all the normal stuff. I don't drink pop much, only when we go out to restaurants on the rare occassion, and I don't drink coffee, so I know it's not caffeine. I used to work out at night, and once I heard about that I stopped and would work out in the morning instead, but it didn't help. I also cover my clock because you're right, if I see it it drives me nuts seeing the time tick away.

We even got a new bed thinking that was the problem! And I swore it was, because for a few nights afterwards I actually did sleep better. But I seriously stay up until like 1 in the morning. It always takes me 1/2 hour to 45 minutes to fall asleep, so it's close to 2 by the time I fall asleep. Then I wake up around 3:30-4 and am up until 6, then fall back asleep until 7. I try making myself go to bed earlier, like around 9 or 10, but then I just lay there until I would normally go to bed anyway. So I've gotten in the habit of just watching TV or getting online because I just get so anxious laying in bed wanting to fall asleep and not being able to.

I really do need to check into it, because I have been diagnosed with night terrors already (night terrors in a nutshell is when your body has a dream-like state between being awake and being asleep. Because of it, you don't have a dream where you're someplace, but you actually feel like you are seeing things in your room. I almost always see spiders or bugs)

[Chandra Amaya]

I worked nightshift for some time, but that has been several years ago. My sleep has not been right since I stopped. I am awake until around 4 or 5 and up by 6 or 7. Then, around 2pm I'm exhausted. It's such a pain...

[Gina]

Hi Gwen and welcome for 4wt!

I will give you some advice that helped me. I went through that period about 15years ago. My was due to many issues that I had going on in my life. I would walk the floors and look at the clock and that drives you more crazy. I would go to bed much earlier that didnt help either. I just constantly dwelled on not sleeping. I tried ambien but I to was young and didn't want to get addicted to sleep medication, at the time all these side effects were not so well known with ambien.

Not sleeping made me feel like I was in a vicious cycle and I couldn't get out of it, like a mouse running through its cage. So one day I just stopped the ambien, and my phycian precribed a medication that was not addicting and relaxed me at night. I found out later on the problem was not me sleeping but I would get aniexty attacks where everything would pulsate in my body and my heart would pound and that is why I didn't sleep.

Try this do not look at the clock in your bedroom turn it away from you, when you are tired your body will sleep. Take a little benadryl before going to bed its not addicting and it has the same ingredients as the over the counter sleep aids. During the day keep busy and do NOT think about if your going to sleep at night. Eventually you will train your body to sleep, its very difficult and a horrible feeling, you will get aggiated and one feeds the other... It will pass , sometimes if I can't sleep I just get up and do something. The worst thing for you is to toss and turn and dwell on not sleeping, get up and do something to occupy your mind.

Are you having anixety attacks,? when this happens your body is racing and that feeling makes you not sleep. The other women gave you good advice, try some of them and learn to relax , before going to bed take a nice bath, put on some music and just let yourself drift . Do not lay there and worry about not sleeping, just to reiterate say if I don't sleep no big deal and don't think of anything you will see you will start sleeping..


Good luck!

[pearl]

gwen, i found that being on the computer right before bed made me stay awake. my mind gets hyped up with the computer. so i cut that out too right before bedtime and it helped.