So Mad!

[judy]

Originally Posted by Tink

I very much agree with Janet and Marilyn. You have every right to say no.
Life is WAY to short to spend your time doing things that go against your grain. Since she's not the type to appreciate it, why bother? If you can make yourself and your own family happy you've succeeded... don't feel you have to tend to the whole world.

If they don't like it, tell them Janet, Marilyn and Tink made you do it! lol They can tak it up with us.

Gina, you can add my name to the "blame us' group. Honestly, if it were me, I would nicely tell my brother the truth and never allow her in my house. I also agree that toxic people are not allowed in my environment.
Actually, I would write a letter to my brother and mail it to him at work or somewhere where she can't see it. I find that when people have time to digest things alone, like when reading a letter, it usually makes for a calmer response.