Please help me

[Lindsey]

Thanks for the advice Haley. I have never thought I could ever marry Kyle. We are just not that compatible.

[Shada]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Thanks for the advice Haley. I have never thought I could ever marry Kyle. We are just not that compatible.

Then why are you still with him? You are planning on moving.. you stated yourself you are not planning on a long term relationship with him.. you are not compatible.. yet you let yourself get worked up and hurt over and over again by his actions.

In continueing this relationship with Kyle, you could be losing out on finding and being with a person you are compatible with and could be truly happy with, and while you are honest with him that you are planning on moving soon and 'this too will end'... Is this really fair to him ..or to you?

If I ever met someone I enjoyed being with and they told me that their future did not include me, I would never involve myself with a situation that I knew would have a dead end.

Do you ever speak of love? Do you love Kyle? Do you want a future with him?
If your answer is yes, then work on the relationship. If not, then let it go. Don't waste your time or his time on a relationship that will end. Because.. whats the point? He could be thinking that you are leaving regardless so why not use you as a stepping stone until someone else comes along.. you are using him till the time comes when you leave, why shouldn't he use you?

I think you both deserve better.