I am new here, and have a question

I can't say it any better than Donna. Your age difference is nobody's business. Older women with younger men is pretty trendy now anyway- not that that is important but still... It sure shouldn't be so shocking to anyone. Welcome to 4WT!

[Janet]

My sister-in-law is 55 and just started living with a man of 37. They get along wonderful, have great times together (in more ways than one, she told me...lol) so I wouldn't let what others think worry or upset me. My SIL said it did bother her at first, because she is his dad's age, but not anymore. His family accepts her so she doesn't let it bother her anymore.

[DianaB]

I can't believe that someone would be so rude as to point something like that out to you! Don't let someone's rude comment ruin your day or week or whatever. Learn to feel beautiful about yourself so you can shake off these comments. Hang around with people who boost your self-esteem and accept any and all positive comments that come your way. Don't shrug them off, accept them. God made you who you are and what you are. He made the flowers of the field and the birds of the air and he made you too. Look at how beautiful the flowers are, and the birds, and everything around you........and He made you beautiful too. At family gatherings don't hang around the ones who make comments like that to you or don't even go. Let your husband explain why you're not there.

I want to thank every one who answered my thread. You are all very kind, and you all made me feel much better.

[DianaB]

You're welcome. Please stay around and join us in our other chatter too. We have some great women!!!

I will stop by every two days, I am going to school, but I will make time to read the posts, from other members, and maybe write, some myself, thanks again

[Janet]

Good, we'll be looking for you and hoping to get to know you better. You'll like it here.

[judy]

Originally Posted by DianaB

I can't believe that someone would be so rude as to point something like that out to you! Don't let someone's rude comment ruin your day or week or whatever. Learn to feel beautiful about yourself so you can shake off these comments. Hang around with people who boost your self-esteem and accept any and all positive comments that come your way. Don't shrug them off, accept them. God made you who you are and what you are. He made the flowers of the field and the birds of the air and he made you too. Look at how beautiful the flowers are, and the birds, and everything around you........and He made you beautiful too. At family gatherings don't hang around the ones who make comments like that to you or don't even go. Let your husband explain why you're not there.

Beautifully said Diana. I think you should take this advice.