Help!!! Dating anxiety

Janet · 10-09-2008, 02:45 PM

I think it sounds wonderful Judy. I wish my sister-in-law would have signed up on some program. She meets the first guy after a breakup and moves in with him. She drives me nuts.

If you think they are going after the hair and boobs...why not take a more conservative picture. Where a nuns habit or something...lol....j/k. Down play how attractive you are and you are ya know....a man would have to be blind not to want to go out with you. But they should go for you because of how smart, funny, witty ...you know....you are. Make sure they like Yorkies.

Also...don't let them pick you up...meet somewhere until you get to know them better. Ya don't need a stalker ya know. This is just so darn exciting...I can't wait to learn more. I'm living vicariously through you!!!

Gina · 10-09-2008, 03:07 PM

Judy most of my single girls friends have met wonderful guys on match.com.. Funny quick story my SIL sister is single and never married 53 yrs. old. She went on match and low and behold she found her future husband, get this now we knew him he grew up in Bklyn in our neighborhood was divorced, I knew his first wife and family , widowed and now marrying my SIL sister. Small world and good things to come about match.

Yes to what Janet said meet him at a public place no picking up from your home until you get to and like him . Janet I can fill you in on stories... lol Judy good luck when is your first date?

Btw Judy age is a number my girlfriend is 10 yrs older than her guy.

Mandy · 10-09-2008, 10:32 PM

Oh i wish we could go with you, and sit at another table just to be there for you incase you needed some moral support! Know you will be in our thoughts!
Like Gina said, age is a number.

Marilyn · 10-10-2008, 02:56 AM

I think we all need to be there. Judy, just picture us all at various tables around you when you are on your first date. J/k.

Knowing you met on Match.com should make it a little safer. Don't they check people out a bit?

DianaB · 10-10-2008, 12:24 PM

Drat!!! I wasn't on yesterday and missed all of this!!!! How exciting for you, Judy!!!! A date!!!! I think that the girls have given you good advice on being careful and not giving out too much information. Maybe we should all come to your house and help you pick out your outfit and help you style your hair!!! LOL It's been forever since I dated so I really don't have any advice for you there except to just take your time. There are all sorts of weirdo's out there but there's also some really nice guys too.

Just take a video camera and sit it up in an out of the way corner and just record the whole date for us then we'll be happy!!!! You know that curiosity is going to kill us!!!! I hope that everything goes really well for you! Hugs!!!!

Janet · 10-10-2008, 12:57 PM

Diana...what a great idea...the video... Oh Judy I can't wait...now when is this date anyway?

Lindsey · 10-10-2008, 01:32 PM

Judy, just take someone else to tape it for you, and tell the guy you're on a new reality show

10-09-2008, 02:45 PM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I think it sounds wonderful Judy. I wish my sister-in-law would have signed up on some program. She meets the first guy after a breakup and moves in with him. She drives me nuts. If you think they are going after the hair and boobs...why not take a more conservative picture. Where a nuns habit or something...lol....j/k. Down play how attractive you are and you are ya know....a man would have to be blind not to want to go out with you. But they should go for you because of how smart, funny, witty ...you know....you are. Make sure they like Yorkies. Also...don't let them pick you up...meet somewhere until you get to know them better. Ya don't need a stalker ya know. This is just so darn exciting...I can't wait to learn more. I'm living vicariously through you!!! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-09-2008, 03:07 PM	#2
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Judy most of my single girls friends have met wonderful guys on match.com.. Funny quick story my SIL sister is single and never married 53 yrs. old. She went on match and low and behold she found her future husband, get this now we knew him he grew up in Bklyn in our neighborhood was divorced, I knew his first wife and family , widowed and now marrying my SIL sister. Small world and good things to come about match. Yes to what Janet said meet him at a public place no picking up from your home until you get to and like him . Janet I can fill you in on stories... lol Judy good luck when is your first date? Btw Judy age is a number my girlfriend is 10 yrs older than her guy. Last edited by Gina; 10-09-2008 at 03:09 PM.

10-09-2008, 10:32 PM	#3
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Oh i wish we could go with you, and sit at another table just to be there for you incase you needed some moral support! Know you will be in our thoughts! Like Gina said, age is a number. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

10-10-2008, 02:56 AM	#4
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	I think we all need to be there. Judy, just picture us all at various tables around you when you are on your first date. J/k. Knowing you met on Match.com should make it a little safer. Don't they check people out a bit? __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

10-10-2008, 12:24 PM	#5
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Drat!!! I wasn't on yesterday and missed all of this!!!! How exciting for you, Judy!!!! A date!!!! I think that the girls have given you good advice on being careful and not giving out too much information. Maybe we should all come to your house and help you pick out your outfit and help you style your hair!!! LOL It's been forever since I dated so I really don't have any advice for you there except to just take your time. There are all sorts of weirdo's out there but there's also some really nice guys too. Just take a video camera and sit it up in an out of the way corner and just record the whole date for us then we'll be happy!!!! You know that curiosity is going to kill us!!!! I hope that everything goes really well for you! Hugs!!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-10-2008, 12:57 PM	#6
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Diana...what a great idea...the video... Oh Judy I can't wait...now when is this date anyway? __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-10-2008, 01:32 PM	#7
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Judy, just take someone else to tape it for you, and tell the guy you're on a new reality show __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

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