Help!!! Dating anxiety

[Gina]

I am sure she is alright.. Janet call or shall I ?

[Marilyn]

Judy, OH, Judy.......

Okay, I can't take it anymore!!! Maybe it was so special that she wants to keep it secret. Or on the other hand, maybe there just aren't words....

At least let us know you're okay!!!

[judy]

I'm so sorry! I was busy all day yesterday, and went to my grand children's school this morning. I promise I will keep you updated more quickly nest time.
(Unless I do elope)

The video of the date is at.......:y elrotflmao:I love the questionnaire idea though.

So - the date was really nice! I met him in Delhi, a nice town almost in the middle of where we both live. What a nice man! He's very good looking - salt and pepper wavy hair, blue eyes, not gorgeous, but nice looking. He's very intelligent, very laid back - what a nice quality! I had forgotten, but you really don't have to talk much on a date. Men love to talk about themselves. I didn't have that much I wanted to say anyway. I'm kind of bored listening to stories of my stuff - after all, I already know all about them. Believe it or not, I actually don'thave a lot to say when I first meet someone.

Anyway, we had lunch in a cute little cafe, and then went for a walk. The weather being so beautiful, we ended up sitting on a bench under a gorgeous tree and chatting. I don't think I'll be hearing from him again. He has 4 children from his ex-marriage. Two of them are in their twenties and live in Brooklyn!
His two teenage daughters live with him every other week. I like that - a family man, but when he said his youngest is twelve, I told him that my oldest granddaughter is 11. He didn't say anything, but when we parted to go home, he said he would write to me online. I would think the next step would be a phone call if there was interest.

I think he's very nice, but that we just are in two very different places in our lives. I don't really know what he thinks. He did say that he's very happy being single, wants to take things very slowly when he meets people, etc., etc. I like that too. Clingy men are to be avoided!

What I really got out of this was that I enjoy dating a lot, I like being with a man, there are some very wonderful people out there, and I'm looking forward to meeting someone else to go out with soon.

Sorry about the video - really!

[Tiramisu]

She was out there posting on all the threads except this one. What a tease!

[Mandy]

Glad to hear from you!!!!!
At least Judy, you have made a new friend, if things dont "work out" you will have a nice online buddy to chat with.
It's great, you had a nice time!

[Gina]

Wow ! Judy an ex Bklynite too.. I assume lol I wonder if I know him he is my age.. lol Anyway I am glad that you had a nice day out, and made a new friend, it does sound like your both going in different directions he with his young children.. You wanting to meet someone for companionship .


If nothing comes out of this at least your building your resume again lol enjoy your new life and when you least expect it you will meet someone.

[Shada]

Judy....

About darn time you got back here!!!!

Glad to hear it went well, that you enjoyed yourself..

Happy you are back with us! We were worried.. don't do that to us again!!

[Marilyn]

Judy, So glad you had a nice time!!!!! You are doing it right, slow and hoping to meet more guys. Sounds like he was very nice, and that you had a good day which you definitely deserve!!!!

Thank you for finally letting us all know.