so awkward...

Janet · 09-07-2006, 09:38 AM

Definitely start charging her. I would also talk with them both. If your roomy doesn't agree with you, then send him packing. You'd probably be able to find a more suitable roommate. Good luck to you...don't let them take advantage of you.

Lindsey · 09-07-2006, 10:47 AM

Well, I talked to one of them. I felt so weird today even LOOKING at them. My friend was sitting behind me in a class so i got a little piece of paper and wrote "Turns out my house isn't soundproof AT ALL" and she apologized and said it's because my roommate turned his music off... but it's not like I would sleep any better with music blasting. She said it'll never happen again and then laughed when I read it because obviously it's not gonna stop. I guess she's starting to feel guilty because I told her I'm not going out with her tonight so I can get to sleep before she comes over, and she promised me nothing will happen tonight. It's taking a toll on our friendship though. This would be so much better if I didn't have a roommate!

Necee419 · 09-07-2006, 11:05 AM

I am sure she was embarrassed and was laughing in a nervous way. There is really no easy way out of this situation and I am afraid that the friendship might get affected as well. Hopefully when you freeze her out a little she will know she upset you and will try to be more considerate of you. Good luck to you.

Lindsey · 09-07-2006, 11:17 AM

Well.... she's not really the kind of girl to be nervous or embarassed about anything... After I started dating my current boyfriend, who she introduced me to, she had no problem telling me DETAILS about the one night they ended up together. It was so hard on me I almost broke up with him until he convinced me it was a huge mistake on his part. After I started hanging out with his friends more I found out she had taken advantage of almost ALL of them after they had too much to drink. Her life and her priorities are her business, but I don't think she realizes how it makes other people feel when she talks so openly. She's a good person inside, and she was a lot of fun before this whole episode started. But she will say things in front of 50 people that I wouldn't even think to myself.

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09-07-2006, 09:38 AM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Definitely start charging her. I would also talk with them both. If your roomy doesn't agree with you, then send him packing. You'd probably be able to find a more suitable roommate. Good luck to you...don't let them take advantage of you.

09-07-2006, 10:47 AM	#2
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Well, I talked to one of them. I felt so weird today even LOOKING at them. My friend was sitting behind me in a class so i got a little piece of paper and wrote "Turns out my house isn't soundproof AT ALL" and she apologized and said it's because my roommate turned his music off... but it's not like I would sleep any better with music blasting. She said it'll never happen again and then laughed when I read it because obviously it's not gonna stop. I guess she's starting to feel guilty because I told her I'm not going out with her tonight so I can get to sleep before she comes over, and she promised me nothing will happen tonight. It's taking a toll on our friendship though. This would be so much better if I didn't have a roommate!

09-07-2006, 11:05 AM	#3
Necee419 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bronx, NY Posts: 283	I am sure she was embarrassed and was laughing in a nervous way. There is really no easy way out of this situation and I am afraid that the friendship might get affected as well. Hopefully when you freeze her out a little she will know she upset you and will try to be more considerate of you. Good luck to you.

09-07-2006, 11:17 AM	#4
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Well.... she's not really the kind of girl to be nervous or embarassed about anything... After I started dating my current boyfriend, who she introduced me to, she had no problem telling me DETAILS about the one night they ended up together. It was so hard on me I almost broke up with him until he convinced me it was a huge mistake on his part. After I started hanging out with his friends more I found out she had taken advantage of almost ALL of them after they had too much to drink. Her life and her priorities are her business, but I don't think she realizes how it makes other people feel when she talks so openly. She's a good person inside, and she was a lot of fun before this whole episode started. But she will say things in front of 50 people that I wouldn't even think to myself.

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