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Old 10-10-2006, 08:47 AM   #1
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Did he have a will?

I would think in those situations that he should have expressed to someone or in writting where and with whom he wanted to be buried.
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Old 10-10-2006, 08:50 AM   #2
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No...he didn't let anyone know anything. The two plots were bought after his death, whereas the ones with his first wife were bought shortly after they married. We're not going to do anything about it, but after talking about it, I thought it would be interesting to know how others feel. Yes he did love his second wife, not as much we don't think as the first, because they fought a lot.
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Old 10-10-2006, 08:52 AM   #3
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I would have buried him with the first wife. Maybe that's just cause I'm sentimental like that, but especially if they fought a lot....
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I would have buried him with the first wife. Maybe that's just cause I'm sentimental like that, but especially if they fought a lot....

Yeah that's what I would have done, but with hubby having step-brother and step-sister, I don't think he wanted to cause hurt feelings. If they would have asked me....which they didn't....LOL....I would probably put my father-in-law in between the two. I just hate the thought of my husbands mother being buried alone. Maybe if hubby goes first I'll let him be with her and I'll be buried with my mom and dad...LOL
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Old 10-10-2006, 09:56 AM   #5
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Yeah that's what I would have done, but with hubby having step-brother and step-sister, I don't think he wanted to cause hurt feelings. If they would have asked me....which they didn't....LOL....I would probably put my father-in-law in between the two. I just hate the thought of my husbands mother being buried alone. Maybe if hubby goes first I'll let him be with her and I'll be buried with my mom and dad...LOL
That's what I would have done too.....buried him between the 2. I can understand how you feel, how torn.
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Old 10-10-2006, 11:01 AM   #6
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Well, my dad's father died and his mother got remarried, but when she passed, which was before her 2nd husband, she was buried next to her first husband.
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This is a situation that should have been discussed with him before he died. That way the family would have known his wishes.
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