I'm having a pity party!!

[Janet]

I'm a real homebody myself, but then there are times when I just need to get out. But I'm only out for a short period and then right back home. I think alot of it is there is just really nothing that exciting to do around here and then there are ...the doggies.

[Marilyn]

Janet, I do understand how you feel to some extent. I have very little family, none I really get together with. I think I've spoken about them before. My children are now 2 hours away. That's why I run to where they are so often. Thankfully, they ask me to come, so it's not like I'm imposing on their time without them wanting me there. Hopefully this relationship will continue.

I have a couple of friends I can run around with besides my hubby. One of them does not work outside the home, so whenever I have time, she's ready to go!! My other 2 other close friends work like I do, so we don't see each other often outside of church. Once in a while we will do something on the weekend, but one of them has one son still at home who is involved in school and sport activities, so her time is rather limited.

It's tough making good close friends. I think that is why we all enjoy it on here so much. Women are designed to be social creatures, and I think we need to find ways to connect with others and develop these friendships.

We're here for you though when you are feeling lonely. You can always count on us!!

[Janet]

Thank you Marilyn, I know I can always count on the ladies here and I value these friendships so much, but it sure would be nice to have a friend right here close to go do something with once in awhile.

We use to get together with other couples when we were younger, but most of them are divorced now and we or they didn't continue on with the friendships. Strange that at least one of us didn't value the friendship enough to keep it going.

Oh well...I'm sure I will feel much better when I can spend a little more time at least outside. It was up near 80 for a few days and it was wonderful and beautiful and all the furbabies loved being outside. Now, it's back in the 50's and feels soooo cold and at night down to the low 30's. I'm trying to be patient, but it sure is hard...lol

[deb22]

Maybe we should all get dinner. And have it together on here. We could have a dinner date. I always eat at the puter anyway!

[Janet]

Sounds like a great idea, but I just know I'd spill or drop something into the keyboard...LOL.. yes I'm sloppy and I admit it...LOL

[Gina]

Aww Janet we are always here for you we are all cyber buddies

I have always been a social person and have many good friends. We all don't see each other because we live in different states. But we speak and email each other often. I do meet some friends like I did last night for dinner and we sometimes go to the city to see a play. At least once or twice a year..

I have my family nearby so I am see them often, cousins, and brother's family. I work so I have made many friendships with other realtors and we get together go to AC and do lunch. I can understand if no one is around it could be lonely for someone.

What about the other bus drivers at work, no special friendships there? I wish you lived by me I keep you busy. Whenever you are alone.. just holler ..

[Janet]

Please don't feel bad for me, I just need to get out and make some friends. I have LynneB who I love to pieces, but she works and has her husband and furkids, and Linda (2tiredmom) up and moved 2 hours away. It would just be nice to pick up the phone once in awhile and say hey, "want to run to town for lunch?" You know.

[katcarasella]

Don't feel bad, I got you a purse today to cheer you up!!th_nutcase.jpg

[DianaB]

Originally Posted by Janet

Please don't feel bad for me, I just need to get out and make some friends. I have LynneB who I love to pieces, but she works and has her husband and furkids, and Linda (2tiredmom) up and moved 2 hours away. It would just be nice to pick up the phone once in awhile and say hey, "want to run to town for lunch?" You know.

Have you thought about calling a friend that works and offer to take her out for lunch. I did that a few times and really enjoyed it, but I haven't done it for awhile. I would call someone different each week and just have some one-on-one time with them.