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Old 10-28-2009, 10:45 AM   #1
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That's just it, Janet, she's willing to do anything he wants and thinks that it's what she wants. I keep telling her that it's HER day and the bride decides what colors and the groom has but a little say in it. Amy doesn't help by telling her that I'm not letting her make her own decisions. She tends to undermine a lot of what I do with the other girls and it's a problem. Plus, I'm worried that if we have to do a wedding according to Nate is Jaci going to have to live her whole life with him making ALL of the decisions. That's how the men in his family are.

Paula, it sounds like you've had a busy weekend with family!!! Fun!!! I can understand about them eating all the time.....we hardly ever get out of the kitchen when the kids are here!!!!

And yes, Jaci's serious about the John Deere wedding except now the colors have been toned down to paler colors. She has also considered the colors of orange, brown, and green........keep in mind that this will be a spring wedding.
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Old 10-28-2009, 01:02 PM   #2
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I have been very busy with work, it consumes most of my time, I work at night to from my computer and I get to relax a little by doing Farmville.. OY!

Gayle you are going to love being on the cruise I promise you that I have gone on several and am ready to go on another soon. You will make it!! your not going to the guillotine lol.

Diana I agree with Janet they must compromise that is not good if he is making all the calls and she has to let her wants known and just not pacify him to make him happy. Today is a different world I don't care that the men in his family are like that or not, that sounds controlling and if he feels he can get away with that he will continue to do so. Your daughter should stand up to him in a nice way of course. But she must nip it in the bud now... Just my 2 cents of course. BTW what is a John Deere Wedding?

Paula spending time with the grandkids sounds wonderful
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Old 10-28-2009, 04:57 PM   #3
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I hope Jaci doesn't fall into the trap you are afraid of Diana. If she gives in now, it may set a precedence. It sounds good that the colors will be paler. That's a compromise already! Pale green and pale yellow are pretty. Add a couple more pastels and there you go.

Here is a picture of a John Deere wedding. They have all kinds of wedding things. It seems to be very popular. I wonder if they have Harley weddings.

http://media.lawrence.com/img/photos...DDING_t600.jpg

I forgot how to copy and paste an image on here without going to "manage attachments." Can someone remind me please?

I have been getting things organized, procrastinating aboput getting things organized, had the kids Saturday, went to pottery last night, and have been ordering stuff to organize things online (like kitchen organizers, and shoe organizers). I am having fun though. I also had to reset up my computer.
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Old 10-28-2009, 05:01 PM   #4
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Thanks Judy, I have not seen a wedding by John Deere
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Old 10-29-2009, 08:24 PM   #5
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I have taken on several additional duties at work and have NO TIME for 4WT or much of anything personal. Nothing much new with me. Power was out earlier from the storm, still addicted to FB apps, and hanging out with the family. I do get on to check on you all, just don't take time to post. Miss you all and will get back soon.
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Old 10-30-2009, 05:46 AM   #6
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You'd better not stay away from here Sandy!!!! I go to FB too, but I always check in here everyday! It would be sad and you would be so missed if you didn't come here often.
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Old 10-30-2009, 06:41 AM   #7
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Well, I'll be gone next week and I surely will miss you all! Please carry on and I'm looking forward to reading all my "new posts" when I get back!

Sandy, I'm sorry that you have added duties at work! But I guess we have to be thankful that we have a job! Yes, Diana, you have a job too! A really important one! Sometimes I'm the same way, I have time to read the new posts, but not to post myself.
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