i think i need to put some fire under his... hiney :)

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Originally Posted by Ponyup

Is he a virgin too? Just curious. My husband & I don't have a mushy relationship at all, but one day I decided he was the one & blurted out I wanna marry you & he said like right now & i'm like whenever & we started looking for rings. My hubby is not a risk taker at all, & didn't want to get turned down if he asked so it worked out better that I let him know I wanted to marry him first. I think you need to sit him down & tell him how you feel. No manipulation just honest I love you I want to be your wife talk. If he freaks out then he is not the one for. You need to know now before you waste anymore time on him.

Excellent advice!!!! I agree that he maybe just too nervous to bring up the subject of marriage. Maybe you should initiate it and you can make a decision based on his reaction.