Do Husbands Get In The Way Of Frienships?

Yes...i have a friend who i used to be very close to, we were up each other's butts all day when our kids were in school but for the last four years she has been with a man who is very jealous of who she hangs out with. he monitors her phone calls, emails, etc. and she lets him do it so i've decided that if she would rather be treated like that and if it makes her happy then i'm happy for her-although if i could i'd tell him to grow up and learn to trust her or leave her the hell alone! we are still friends but no where as close as we used to be because of his selfishness which makes me sad.