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Join Date: Sep 2006
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Judy! I'm so glad you got such positive feedback from you doctor! I hope things continue to look up for you! It sounds like you are doing all the right things to take care of yourself.
I think I'm one of those women who would be "manless" if/when Gary is gone. My mom has been widowed for 39 years and she never even looked twice at another man. I can't imagine myself with another man either. I REALLY like my alone time! Also, I prefer the company of women in general, and usually don't care to be around most of the men I know (except Gary of course). I can see where it might be nice to have an escort occasionally - but nothing permanent or even semi-permanent. My sister-in-law has been widowed for 32 years and although she has had some rather long term male friends from time to time, she has never remarried. She likes her freedom and I think I would too. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not looking forward to Gary being gone, I'm just talking hypothetically.
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That's the thing! I have so much freedom! But, I also haven't been in love for years now. Would being in love balance out giving up some freedom?
I just don't know!!! ![]() ![]() ![]()
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I think it probably would - but it depends on how much you love. I think you can love someone and not give up your freedom - but that's just my opinion.
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