She's Back In The Hospital Again.

paula1961 · 12-28-2010, 06:36 PM

My heart goes out to you Janet. I went thru this same stuff for so long. I am not trying to depress you but this could be a very long road with your Mom honey. My Dad went through so many tests that came back not showing anything. My prayers are with you..and I wish I could be there and give you a great big hug! You are a wonderful daughter and I'm sure that your Mom without saying....appreciates you just being there with her. I will pray for comfort for her...I know that is all we can hope for Janet. If she would be comfortable staying with you....that might be for the best..Dad and Mom came up here for a few days and it is those days that I am so very thankful for before Dad passed. I so hope that I haven't depressed you..........I'm only thinking of what you are going through..and speaking from my heart as to what I went through. I love you.

gja1000 · 12-28-2010, 07:43 PM

Well, the blood in her stool is coming from her intestines somewhere. It's so frustrating to not be able to find out where. If it is red when it comes out, then it is not too high up. Usually blood in the small intestines comes out black, rather than red. Keep after them till they find out what it is. She can't continue to bleed!

DianaB · 12-28-2010, 10:35 PM

I think they should keep her until they find out where the bleeding is coming from......or until they feel that it's controled. My Dad had trouble with bleeding from "somewhere" and he kept having problems and would have to go in to receive blood. It was very tiresome and I didn't have to deal with as much as you are. I hope that they can find something out.

Janet · 12-29-2010, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by paula1961

My heart goes out to you Janet. I went thru this same stuff for so long. I am not trying to depress you but this could be a very long road with your Mom honey. My Dad went through so many tests that came back not showing anything. My prayers are with you..and I wish I could be there and give you a great big hug! You are a wonderful daughter and I'm sure that your Mom without saying....appreciates you just being there with her. I will pray for comfort for her...I know that is all we can hope for Janet. If she would be comfortable staying with you....that might be for the best..Dad and Mom came up here for a few days and it is those days that I am so very thankful for before Dad passed. I so hope that I haven't depressed you..........I'm only thinking of what you are going through..and speaking from my heart as to what I went through. I love you.

Paula...I appreciate your advice and kindness more than you know. Your post didn't depress me at all. It's been a long road already...over a year and I know there is more to come, for how long....for as long as God knows we can deal with it. I hope I'm not disappointing him.

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Originally Posted by gja1000

Well, the blood in her stool is coming from her intestines somewhere. It's so frustrating to not be able to find out where. If it is red when it comes out, then it is not too high up. Usually blood in the small intestines comes out black, rather than red. Keep after them till they find out what it is. She can't continue to bleed!

Thank you for that Gayle...they didn't tell us that info. The blood is more red than black. As gross as this is to some....the stool is black because of all the iron she was taking, but it seaps away red. I'm going to try and insist they do the camera thing before she leaves.

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Originally Posted by DianaB

I think they should keep her until they find out where the bleeding is coming from......or until they feel that it's controled. My Dad had trouble with bleeding from "somewhere" and he kept having problems and would have to go in to receive blood. It was very tiresome and I didn't have to deal with as much as you are. I hope that they can find something out.

I think they should keep her too, until they find what's going on or else there is nothing they can do. I know it's difficult at her age and even though I don't want to lose my Mom....I don't want her to suffer either. She cries more than I've ever seen her cry and it is just so heartbreaking.

Shada · 12-29-2010, 03:58 PM

Janet.. I am so sorry you and your Mom are going thru so much again!

My prayers are with you and your Mom. Hugs to you my friend.

Janet · 12-30-2010, 04:21 AM

Thank you Shada....sure miss you when you're not here.

judy · 12-30-2010, 07:10 AM

Hi Janet. Sorry I haven't been on for a few days and didn't know about Mom. My prayers are with you both. It is so clear that you two love each other so much, and that her illnesses have brought you even closer. She isn't so bossy when she is sick! And you get a chance to do for her, which I know she appreciates.

I hope they don't send her home without a clear diagnosis! They do that though. The cost, etc., etc.

I am thinking of you and have you in my heart always.

12-28-2010, 07:43 PM	#2
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	Well, the blood in her stool is coming from her intestines somewhere. It's so frustrating to not be able to find out where. If it is red when it comes out, then it is not too high up. Usually blood in the small intestines comes out black, rather than red. Keep after them till they find out what it is. She can't continue to bleed! __________________ Gayle

12-30-2010, 04:21 AM	#6
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Thank you Shada....sure miss you when you're not here. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

12-30-2010, 07:10 AM	#7
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Hi Janet. Sorry I haven't been on for a few days and didn't know about Mom. My prayers are with you both. It is so clear that you two love each other so much, and that her illnesses have brought you even closer. She isn't so bossy when she is sick! And you get a chance to do for her, which I know she appreciates. I hope they don't send her home without a clear diagnosis! They do that though. The cost, etc., etc. I am thinking of you and have you in my heart always. __________________ *Judy*

12-28-2010, 06:36 PM	#1
paula1961 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Kentucky Posts: 3,383	My heart goes out to you Janet. I went thru this same stuff for so long. I am not trying to depress you but this could be a very long road with your Mom honey. My Dad went through so many tests that came back not showing anything. My prayers are with you..and I wish I could be there and give you a great big hug! You are a wonderful daughter and I'm sure that your Mom without saying....appreciates you just being there with her. I will pray for comfort for her...I know that is all we can hope for Janet. If she would be comfortable staying with you....that might be for the best..Dad and Mom came up here for a few days and it is those days that I am so very thankful for before Dad passed. I so hope that I haven't depressed you..........I'm only thinking of what you are going through..and speaking from my heart as to what I went through. I love you.

12-28-2010, 10:35 PM	#3
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I think they should keep her until they find out where the bleeding is coming from......or until they feel that it's controled. My Dad had trouble with bleeding from "somewhere" and he kept having problems and would have to go in to receive blood. It was very tiresome and I didn't have to deal with as much as you are. I hope that they can find something out.

12-29-2010, 03:58 PM	#5
Shada Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,228	Janet.. I am so sorry you and your Mom are going thru so much again! My prayers are with you and your Mom. Hugs to you my friend.

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