Pray for Janet's Mom

[Blueyes]

Oh Janet! When my mom had her stroke, she was so frightened. I stayed right with her for weeks because I was the only one that could figure out what she was saying, and I think that's only because we were so very close. Can your mom swallow ok? If I knew then what I know now, I wouldn't have let her go through so many tests and carotid artery surgery. She ended up being tube fed for a year and a half. But she had her right mind and her sense of humor til the end I feel your pain, and I know your fears. I am praying for peace of mind for you both, and healing for your mom.

[Shada]

I am so sorry Janet! Healing thoughts and prayers are with you and your Mom.

[gja1000]

Janet, I'm so thankful for this update. And I'm thankful it sounds like it was a small stroke and small heart attack. I agree with Betsi, it's so hard to know what to do or how much to do. We want to keep our loved ones with us, but it is so hard to see them hurt, unhappy, in pain and the like. I'm glad it is the weekend so you don't have to drive the bus, but I fear you will be worn out by Monday. This is just so hard. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

[Janet]

Mom had a good night. She was able to sleep more than in previous stays. Her morning isn't going as well because reality has set in. Her whole right side is affected and she is so sad. We ordered our breakfast, but she had a hard time using a piece of silverware. I encourage her to try and then will help her...then make her try again. I gave her a comb to comb her hair and she started to grab it with the left hand....I said "wrong hand"...she gave me that MOM look and did as I requested. I let her finish it with her good hand.

She's sleeping right now. I like it best when she is asleep...she doesn't cry.

[lynne b]

Thanks for the update on your mom. Will be praying for both you of that things get better over the next few days. You get some rest also Janet.

[DianaB]

I'm glad to see an update on your Mom. I'm sorry to hear that one side is affected. I'm sure that's really hard for her but I'm sure she'll get some therapy and will be better in the future. You've been in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you both!!!

[judy]

I am praying for her and for you Janet. This is so hard, and it is heartbreaking to see her fragile and crying, I am sure.

I wish I could help more.

[DianeW]

Thanks for the update....I have been thinking about you and your poor Mum, I am so sorry she is having all this trauma and upset.

Janet do all you can, as i am sure you want to be there yourself, but if you are lucky enough to have others to help you - LET THEM.

I dont have any help really, except a few old family friends that pop in to see Uncle, which is very nice but at the same time doesnt help me any. So it is down to me to do everything for him - but i dont mind, i will do it whilst i am able to.

I feel for you Janet and will be praying for you and your family and also your lovely Mum.

Diane x.

[gja1000]

Thanks for much for the update, I am thinking of both of you all the time, wondering how she and you are doing. It is a very very good sign that she can use her affected side somewhat - this speaks well to the fact that she might get complete use of that side back with physical therapy (I know, I know, she won't like PT, I don't either). But I think you should be very encouraged! How is her speech?