Hope It Doesn't Bore You

Blueyes · 10-17-2011, 06:07 PM

We love you Janet, and always want to know what you think and feel!

I would be worried about you if you DIDN'T think about your mom every day. She has been your mom every day for your whole life, you can't just "let it go". MEN

My mom has been gone for 5 years, and I still think about her every single day. Most days now, the memories just make me smile...but I still have those days that I cry for her, and miss her so much I can barely stand it.

You are just beginning to realize that she is really gone. That's the hard part. You still have a year of those awful "firsts" to go through. You talk to us about your mom any time you want to. We'll be right here for you!!

Tiramisu · 10-17-2011, 06:24 PM

Ditto what Betsi said. Keep talking and we'll lovingly listen.

Lindsey · 10-17-2011, 07:55 PM

Shada · 10-18-2011, 06:34 PM

You talk to us as often as you need to about your Mom!
Mom's are special. Mine can drive me crazy, but a life without her? Can't imagine.

So talk. We care about you... we have shared your loss, we will share your memories. We will share your tears. [HUGS]

JJJ · 10-18-2011, 06:58 PM

Talk your heart out Janet. In my opinion he doesn't know how to respond to you. Maybe wording it differently might work. He might not want to cry in front of you. Men are Men

Janet · 10-19-2011, 07:07 AM

Yesterday Jerry and I took Mom's car back to a Toyota dealer. When Ricky and I went, we were going to have to pay them $1117.00 and they were pay the rest of the car off and then sell it. This time we (and we accepted) only had to pay $437.00.

I was very sad...this kind of stuff just makes my heart ache so much. While Jerry was taking the license plates off I started crying, I couldn't help it. It was just one more thing to confirm she's gone. Jerry just told me... "it's just a car Janet" and I told him I knew that, but it was Mom's first and only new car and she loved it so much. Then the subject was changed and he brought me home. As hard as it was....I'm glad it's over.

DianaB · 10-21-2011, 06:58 AM

We know that it's hard, Janet, and we want you to let us know how you're feeling. Losing a parent is so hard. Your brothers weren't with your Mom every day......through good and bad.....so they don't understand how you feel. You'll have days like this one every once in a while......it's part of the grieving process. We love you!!! Hugs!!!!

10-17-2011, 06:07 PM	#1
Blueyes Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 2,119	We love you Janet, and always want to know what you think and feel! I would be worried about you if you DIDN'T think about your mom every day. She has been your mom every day for your whole life, you can't just "let it go". MEN My mom has been gone for 5 years, and I still think about her every single day. Most days now, the memories just make me smile...but I still have those days that I cry for her, and miss her so much I can barely stand it. You are just beginning to realize that she is really gone. That's the hard part. You still have a year of those awful "firsts" to go through. You talk to us about your mom any time you want to. We'll be right here for you!! __________________ Betsi

10-17-2011, 06:24 PM	#2
Tiramisu Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: New Caney, Texas (outside Houston) Posts: 1,776	Ditto what Betsi said. Keep talking and we'll lovingly listen. __________________ SANDY

10-17-2011, 07:55 PM	#3
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	__________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

10-19-2011, 07:07 AM	#6
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Yesterday Jerry and I took Mom's car back to a Toyota dealer. When Ricky and I went, we were going to have to pay them $1117.00 and they were pay the rest of the car off and then sell it. This time we (and we accepted) only had to pay $437.00. I was very sad...this kind of stuff just makes my heart ache so much. While Jerry was taking the license plates off I started crying, I couldn't help it. It was just one more thing to confirm she's gone. Jerry just told me... "it's just a car Janet" and I told him I knew that, but it was Mom's first and only new car and she loved it so much. Then the subject was changed and he brought me home. As hard as it was....I'm glad it's over. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-18-2011, 06:34 PM	#4
Shada Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,228	You talk to us as often as you need to about your Mom! Mom's are special. Mine can drive me crazy, but a life without her? Can't imagine. So talk. We care about you... we have shared your loss, we will share your memories. We will share your tears. [HUGS]

10-18-2011, 06:58 PM	#5
JJJ Donating 4WT Addict Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 1,073	Talk your heart out Janet. In my opinion he doesn't know how to respond to you. Maybe wording it differently might work. He might not want to cry in front of you. Men are Men

10-21-2011, 06:58 AM	#7
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	We know that it's hard, Janet, and we want you to let us know how you're feeling. Losing a parent is so hard. Your brothers weren't with your Mom every day......through good and bad.....so they don't understand how you feel. You'll have days like this one every once in a while......it's part of the grieving process. We love you!!! Hugs!!!!

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