Venting this Time!

Janet · 12-23-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by judy

OMG!!! How dare he? He wants to sell it sooner because of the electricity bills?

You should have hung up on him!

Believe me....I wanted to hang up but knew I'd probably end up regretting it. Hopefully everything won't take much longer to get settled, I'm hoping for a couple months or less, but ya just never know with all the legal crap.

JJJ · 12-23-2011, 05:48 PM

How very rude

You don't have control on everything, that's common sense.

I know what you mean about family. Once my brother in law asked me to lend him money for rent because they were ready to evict them. I told him I would write a check to the leasing office. Years went by and I didn't even see $20. Years later he went to jail and my sis told me to lend her one more check for the rent. She said that this one she will hold responsible. It's been atleast three years and still no money. I have never thrown it in her face and I am more than happy to buy her kids presents. But it does piss me off. I know she's very poor, especially for sticking with him. But it does pisses me off seeing her in new clothes instead of trying to pay of her dues. Atleast buy my boys something to make up for it.

Janet just have your attorneys take care of everything.

Janet · 12-26-2011, 05:42 PM

I will be checking with the attorney tomorrow. I just hate having to go in an ask such things and make my family look bad....even though I'm not the one doing it. I just want the estate to be settled so life can get somewhat back to normal.

JJJ · 12-26-2011, 07:01 PM

I'm sure everything well come out well.

DianaB · 01-01-2012, 08:34 PM

Sorry I didn't see this sooner!!! I can't believe that!!! It won't cost him hardly anything for three months of utilities!!! What is with people???

Janet · 01-01-2012, 08:43 PM

It will cost approx. $40 for him and the same for Brad for one month of total utilities. I'm just going to go ahead and use our home equity account and then pay it off once the estate is settled. Then everything will be over with..including my relationship with them.

gja1000 · 01-02-2012, 08:07 PM

The money is not the issue, they are just being asses! I know you'll be glad when it is all over.

12-26-2011, 05:42 PM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I will be checking with the attorney tomorrow. I just hate having to go in an ask such things and make my family look bad....even though I'm not the one doing it. I just want the estate to be settled so life can get somewhat back to normal. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

01-01-2012, 08:43 PM	#6
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	It will cost approx. $40 for him and the same for Brad for one month of total utilities. I'm just going to go ahead and use our home equity account and then pay it off once the estate is settled. Then everything will be over with..including my relationship with them. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

01-02-2012, 08:07 PM	#7
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	The money is not the issue, they are just being asses! I know you'll be glad when it is all over. __________________ Gayle

12-23-2011, 05:48 PM	#2
JJJ Donating 4WT Addict Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 1,073	How very rude You don't have control on everything, that's common sense. I know what you mean about family. Once my brother in law asked me to lend him money for rent because they were ready to evict them. I told him I would write a check to the leasing office. Years went by and I didn't even see $20. Years later he went to jail and my sis told me to lend her one more check for the rent. She said that this one she will hold responsible. It's been atleast three years and still no money. I have never thrown it in her face and I am more than happy to buy her kids presents. But it does piss me off. I know she's very poor, especially for sticking with him. But it does pisses me off seeing her in new clothes instead of trying to pay of her dues. Atleast buy my boys something to make up for it. Janet just have your attorneys take care of everything.

12-26-2011, 07:01 PM	#4
JJJ Donating 4WT Addict Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 1,073	I'm sure everything well come out well.

01-01-2012, 08:34 PM	#5
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Sorry I didn't see this sooner!!! I can't believe that!!! It won't cost him hardly anything for three months of utilities!!! What is with people???

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