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Old 02-01-2013, 01:58 PM   #1
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Oh Sweetie, I'm feel so bad that you're going through this.... (((HUGS))) I knew you hadn't posted for a bit and wanted to make sure you were okay. Had no idea you were under so much stress. I hope in the future you won't have to do this type of design and do what your passion is. In 4 weeks.....you'll be able to really enjoy your much needed vacation.
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Old 02-01-2013, 02:18 PM   #2
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Thanks Janet. I actually feel better after leaving work early today (I worked through lunch). I think I have convinced the other girl not to resign yet, but to tell her supervisor she has interviewed for other jobs and will leave if she is expected to work under this guy anymore. We desperately need her and had a posting for her position for over a year before she came a few months ago. It gives me hope something will change! We have also been keeping a record of working with this project manager and our difficulties with him. We sent it to another senior landscape architect today, and he will give it to their supervisor.

I really don't want to leave, especially since I showed Scott's resume to the head of my department and they are figuring out how to fit him in. They want to make a position for him! We wouldn't work on the same projects and would be in different divisions of the department, but the commute and flexible hours would really make our life easier! There have been tons of lay offs in his company so he is worried about that.

I hope these next 4 weeks fly by! I know our trip will be very busy but at least I won't think about work for a couple of weeks!
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Old 02-03-2013, 05:25 PM   #3
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Hang in there Lindsey. I know work can be stressful and they know it is. Sooner or later you will get compensated for your hard work.

Concentrate on your work and everything will work out. Africa is right around the corner.
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Old 02-06-2013, 10:15 AM   #4
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I am much better now, I think it was just an overly stressful week last week. I'm just trying to look forward to going away soon and not having to deal with anything for a couple of weeks!

I actually have gotten compensated. About two weeks ago I got a raise. I was expecting one, because it was a new year, but it was a lot more than I expected! It's nice to feel appreciated, but I'm still not happy with being stuck on this type of project. Oh well, I'm still working my way up!
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Hang in there, Lindsay!! Hopefully your supervisor on this project will get straightened out and work better with the two of you. Your trip to Africa will be here before you know it and you'll be able to take your mind off of work for awhile. Hugs!!
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Old 02-07-2013, 10:31 AM   #6
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So far this week I've barely had any work from him so maybe that's why I'm feeling so much better than last week lol!

His supervisor got our little "journal" of our issues for the past month, and he told another manager that there were things in there he'd like to follow up on. That other manager told me that yesterday. So far I haven't been called into any meetings but I'm sure that will come.

The other girl I think is going to leave for sure. She's been shortlisted and the new job she wants is between herself and one other. She went for another meeting over dinner a few days ago and she's just waiting for a call now. I've encouraged her to tell her manager that this is going on and she's looking elsewhere, but she hasn't yet. I'm hoping he can convince her to stay! She is the only Landscape Tech in our office and it took forever to find someone. If she leaves, I know I will be stuck doing all of the landscape work instead of the work I want to do!
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Old 02-07-2013, 10:42 AM   #7
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I'm glad you're not as stressed this week. Almost another week closer to Africa!!!!

I'll definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers that you won't get stuck doing anymore landscape jobs, since you don't like them. It probably helps a little with a bigger than expected raise, Congratulations!
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