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03-16-2013, 06:41 AM
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I agree. Her problems are NOT your or your son's problems.......and it sounds like she has a lot! I would firmly stand my ground on this. Obviously the cutting proves that there is some emotional problems as well and this girl needs help. She needs to confide in her Mom or Dad and let them know what's going on with this ex-boyfriend.
I know that Ricky would like to have a girlfriend but this is something that I used to tell Dae Lynn before she married Damon. "There are worse things than being single!" Sadly she found that out the hard way. Keep praying......and pray that God would remove this girl from Ricky's like and bring a good girl to him. I'll be praying too.
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03-16-2013, 06:54 AM
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Thank you Diana. I've been praying so hard. Literally on my knees.
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03-16-2013, 11:51 PM
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3:37 in the morning. My son didn't come home. Sent me a text earlier today that said "if she can't stay all night here, can I stay at her house?" He came home from work and we talked for a bit and I told him
I didn't think it was right, but obviously he doesn't give a crap what his dad and I think. So....she will no longer be allowed in our house. He made his bed now he can lie in it. If he wants her and her drama damned life, he can have her.....I am no longer allowing toxic people in my life. He will always be welcome and loved.....but I don't need, want or desire trash like her.
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03-17-2013, 11:50 AM
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3:49 pm....still haven't heard from my son. I honestly feel as though my heart is bleeding.
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03-17-2013, 12:56 PM
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Janet, I'm sure we've all felt this way from time to time about our children. Sometimes our sons can absolutely lose their minds over a girl. It's extra hard on you because Ricky lives at home and you know when he's out of pocket and you worry about him. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this. I wish our kids would just take our advice when it comes to a bad choice concerning a girlfriend, but it's too hard for them to see. I wish I had listened closer to my mother about certain things, but when you're young and "in love" your brain stops functioning.
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03-19-2013, 10:04 AM
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Betsi, you are so right.
Here's a big hug, Janet!!  I'm praying too.
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03-20-2013, 05:34 PM
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His not thinking with his brain right now like many young people. If it was my kid I would pack his things and tell him his old enough to make his decisions so be it. Your not disowning him your just letting him be a man. Sooner or later this girl will make a mistake and he will see what you meant.
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