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Old 03-08-2007, 08:49 PM   #1
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You probably don't think what you said means as much as it does. I read that right before I went out to grab some stuff at the store, mostly stuff my brother wanted =/ But the whole way driving there I was like "I am so much more fun when I'm single!" And it's true. I was single for 3 years before I dated my ex because I WANTED to be. I am more outgoing, I go for what I really want. I can be the life of the party. I think that attracted him to me. But for the past 9 months everytime I went out with my bf I sat at a table with him and his friends all night at the bar, talking when one of them talked to me. Last weekend, my first single weekend in ages, I drank too much tequila and danced on speakers with girls all night long and had a blast!
So now that I just got home, I'm going to wax my legs, which I was doing before for my bf, and I will now do for me! I bought some hair products for my new cut, and some hair dye to change it up a little (I think I look sexier with darker hair anyway)! I also got some new nail polish to top it all off! My brother is out tonight with his friends so I've got the house to myself. Let girly night begin!
And thanks for the reminder that the world isn't over when a guy isn't around. I just lost myself and that made me remember how fun and independent I used to be, and WILL be again!
That's so awesome!! It seems like you are doing so much better now and I'm incredibly happy for you! Hope you are having a wonderful night.
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Old 03-08-2007, 09:16 PM   #2
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I'm so glad I have you guys here to support me. I feel so alone sometimes. Since my ex is going home to visit his parents and pick up his new truck this weekend, I e-mailed one of his friends (the only one I know how to contact without having to contact my ex first) and said since I won't be seeing him or anyone else for a long while, we should hang out on Saturday and he agreed. I met him on the same trip that I met my ex on so we've been good friends for awhile. And since I KNOW they'll end up talking to my ex about it, I'm going to look SO good and be SO happy and have a great time!
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Old 03-08-2007, 11:53 PM   #3
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MAKE HIM JEALOUS. That's the best revenge and it feels sooooo good doing it!!! Show him that you don't need him, and let him know full well that the worst decision he ever made in his life was letting you go.

You're a woman, you're young, you're gorgeous, nothin stands in your way. Do what you want, when you want, with who ever you want, and go where ever you want. That's what's so great about being single, you don't have to constantly worry about another person.

And I know it's cliche, but it's usually the great guys that come along when you're not looking and when you actually don't want to be in a relationship. You'll go on a date or two for fun and then who knows where it'll go from there!!

Just live life, that's what being single is all about, living life and enjoying it.
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Old 03-09-2007, 12:40 AM   #4
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GO OUT, and ENJOY life, i can't say this enough to all the single guys, and girls out there. Go places, see things, travel, do everything you want before you get attached.
And Lindsey, you need to show this guy you can do without him, and we ALL know you can do it! Live each day as if its your last, enjoy the little things, and get to know the person in you.
Dont go looking for the perfect guy, they come when you least expect it, and you know this too!
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Old 03-09-2007, 05:22 AM   #5
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GO OUT, and ENJOY life, i can't say this enough to all the single guys, and girls out there. Go places, see things, travel, do everything you want before you get attached.
And Lindsey, you need to show this guy you can do without him, and we ALL know you can do it! Live each day as if its your last, enjoy the little things, and get to know the person in you.
Dont go looking for the perfect guy, they come when you least expect it, and you know this too!

Mandy I couldnt say it better myself.. bravo Lindsey just enjoy being single you are young once.. No second chances.
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