What about porn?

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Originally Posted by cindy0721

Well I see your point and thank you for it.. I agree with you in someways... I am very ok with my sexual being and I cannot say hubby and I have a horrible sex life because to be honest we please each other very well... I think we have a great connection in bed amongst other things.... but I do agree with you ladies on the fact that there are WORSE things to live with, I cannot discredit him too much, he is a great husband in many ways and my best friend , I just have to accept that there is no such perfect man out there and that I am lucky enough to only have this quirk of his that I disagree with , not any drinking,drug addictions amongst other vices as well. I know he loves me and I am going to have to learn to look the other way.... maybe embrace Becca's policy on the don't ask don't tell... You know we have been married 5 years this June .... it still amazes me that it took us this long to hit this BIG of a stump... is this usual?

He should at least respect you enough to not do it in front of you if he is going to do it. And, as long as you are secure in your marriage and it is not interfering with your sexual relationship, then maybe a "don't ask don't tell" policy would be okay. However, if it IS something that is affecting your relationship negatively, then it is not something that should be ignored. For instance, if he would rather look at that stuff than have sex with you. You know what I mean??