I need help....

03-09-2007, 11:13 PM

Okay first of all im new here and im 13 years old. I'm in Middle School. well i have a question if a friend ignores you and treats u like dust is that a true friend? I know Stupid question but i have been her best friend for 3 years and ever since we went to middle school she change.

Thanks in advance

highlans · 03-10-2007, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by cerise2893

Okay first of all im new here and im 13 years old. I'm in Middle School. well i have a question if a friend ignores you and treats u like dust is that a true friend? I know Stupid question but i have been her best friend for 3 years and ever since we went to middle school she change.

Thanks in advance

First of all welcome cerise2893

never feel any thing you write on here is stupid this site is a wonderful place with lots of loving careing people

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There are some people on this site that I am sure will give you some sound advice so I will leave that to them

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03-10-2007, 01:38 AM

Thank u for ur welcome. its juss cause im having a hard time in middle school cause of my friends. They tell me i can count on them and then all of the sudden 8th grade came and they became mean to me. I dont even know wat to do anymore.

Mandy · 03-10-2007, 01:38 AM

Hi Cerise, and welcome!

First of all i want you to know, that your question is not stupid at all, you great for asking.
I take it this is your first year of middle school? See, kids change when they go to middle school, friends that used to be close, often go seperate ways, try not to take it too personally.
You go out there girl, and you make your own group of friends to hang out with.
My son is 2 years older than you, all of he's friends have changed, includng him. Its ok, it will get easier, just be yourself.

03-10-2007, 01:42 AM

thanks guys im actually going to be a freshmen next year so yeah.

Janet · 03-10-2007, 04:44 AM

First off sweetie, there are no stupid questions, okay?

Next, when young people spend their grade school years together, they become so close (some of the parents do too.) Most have been together from K through 6th grade. Then when middle school gets here, there are soooo many new people and sooo many new friends to make. It happens again in high school.

My advice is to get out there, get involved. Even if you are shy, push yourself to join clubs, make new friends. Although it can be a scary time for some, it can be a whole new wonderous adventure. I keep telling my son, to get out there and do all that you can do, once these years are over....they never come back. So get out there and be the best you can be and enjoy this great time in your life. I wish you the best.

03-10-2007, 10:35 AM

Thanks for all your advice.

AngieDoogles · 03-10-2007, 05:01 PM

Just wondering why this user was banned. Does anyone know? Was it her age? I just wanted to make sure I don't do something to get banned myself. Thanks!

rivermom · 03-10-2007, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by AngieDoogles

Just wondering why this user was banned. Does anyone know? Was it her age? I just wanted to make sure I don't do something to get banned myself. Thanks!

The rules state you must be 18 to belong to this forum. There is adult content on here that really is not suitable for teens.

Hopefully she will find a clean/nice forum she can join, or good friends/family to talk to.

AngieDoogles · 03-10-2007, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by rivermom

The rules state you must be 18 to belong to this forum. There is adult content on here that really is not suitable for teens.

Hopefully she will find a clean/nice forum she can join, or good friends/family to talk to.

Thanks so much! I was hoping it was only an age thing. I was thinking, is it really that easy to get banned!?

Anyway, I also hope she is able to find a suitable forum to join.

Janet · 03-11-2007, 01:58 AM

I hope she finds a good forum she can go to. I was a little worried when I saw her age and some of the things we talk about on this forum. I feel bad that she seemed like she needed someone, but I'm glad we have an age restriction. Somethings are just not appropriate for those that young.

RLC12345678 · 03-11-2007, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

I hope she finds a good forum she can go to. I was a little worried when I saw her age and some of the things we talk about on this forum. I feel bad that she seemed like she needed someone, but I'm glad we have an age restriction. Somethings are just not appropriate for those that young.

I agree, Janet. I was going to say something, but then I noticed she was banned. Hope admin sent her an email letting her know WHY she was banned.

Mandy · 03-11-2007, 02:43 PM

When i saw her age, i knew she would get banned, its an adult site, so i was hoping we could give her advice/support on her issue, before we had to wave her out, and i think we did. I hope she can find a site for teens where she can talk about her things.

03-09-2007, 11:13 PM	#1
cerise2893 Guest Posts: n/a	I need help.... Okay first of all im new here and im 13 years old. I'm in Middle School. well i have a question if a friend ignores you and treats u like dust is that a true friend? I know Stupid question but i have been her best friend for 3 years and ever since we went to middle school she change. Thanks in advance

03-10-2007, 01:38 AM	#4
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Hi Cerise, and welcome! First of all i want you to know, that your question is not stupid at all, you great for asking. I take it this is your first year of middle school? See, kids change when they go to middle school, friends that used to be close, often go seperate ways, try not to take it too personally. You go out there girl, and you make your own group of friends to hang out with. My son is 2 years older than you, all of he's friends have changed, includng him. Its ok, it will get easier, just be yourself. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-10-2007, 04:44 AM	#6
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	First off sweetie, there are no stupid questions, okay? Next, when young people spend their grade school years together, they become so close (some of the parents do too.) Most have been together from K through 6th grade. Then when middle school gets here, there are soooo many new people and sooo many new friends to make. It happens again in high school. My advice is to get out there, get involved. Even if you are shy, push yourself to join clubs, make new friends. Although it can be a scary time for some, it can be a whole new wonderous adventure. I keep telling my son, to get out there and do all that you can do, once these years are over....they never come back. So get out there and be the best you can be and enjoy this great time in your life. I wish you the best. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-11-2007, 01:58 AM	#11
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I hope she finds a good forum she can go to. I was a little worried when I saw her age and some of the things we talk about on this forum. I feel bad that she seemed like she needed someone, but I'm glad we have an age restriction. Somethings are just not appropriate for those that young. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-11-2007, 02:43 PM	#13
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	When i saw her age, i knew she would get banned, its an adult site, so i was hoping we could give her advice/support on her issue, before we had to wave her out, and i think we did. I hope she can find a site for teens where she can talk about her things. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-10-2007, 01:42 AM	#5
cerise2893 Guest Posts: n/a	thanks guys im actually going to be a freshmen next year so yeah.

03-10-2007, 10:35 AM	#7
cerise2893 Guest Posts: n/a	Thanks for all your advice.

03-10-2007, 05:01 PM	#8
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	Just wondering why this user was banned. Does anyone know? Was it her age? I just wanted to make sure I don't do something to get banned myself. Thanks!

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