your first time

[Janet]

I honestly don't remember my first kiss. I think it was in Jr. high with my first REAL boyfriend. My 'other' first time was when I was 17 with my husband. It was really not what I expected. I remember when we got married (I was 19, he was 21) we 'did it' every night for the first 8 or 9 days and I was thinking, crap.....do married couples do it every night? I was beginning to get tired of it. Then things started getting normal if that's what you want to call it. I'm so glad he finally (must have) gotten as tired of it as I did.....LOL

[Mandy]

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it" is THIS what they all bragging about I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it" is THIS what they all bragging about I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what! Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what! Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

janet, dont feel bad, i was so naive back than, before i learnt different i used to think people would be able to tell on my face, that ide break out in pimples or something.

[Lindsey]

First real kiss was on a dare, with the cutest boy I'd ever seen! It was on a camping trip with my friend's family and the guy was her cousin's friend. They dared us to kiss one night in the tent after the parents all went to sleep!
First time for sex was with a guy I thought I loved, and it just happened in the moment. I was 17 and saving myself for marriage, but we had been together for 2 years already and he promised he would marry me when we were done school. I bawled when it was over, and then I bawled even more a year later when he broke up with me and I found out he had been cheating on me for the whole 3 years we were together! So I really can't be sure that I was his first...

[Marilyn]

My first kiss was when I was around 16. The guy stuck his tongue in my mouth. I freaked out because I did not know people did that. Yuck!! I was so embarassed. I remember I had the shivers like I was cold but it was just nervousness. I told my best friend about it and she had quite a laugh & explained what a French kiss was. I felt so stupid like everyone knew so much more than I did.

[rivermom]

I was 14 at the time and met the boy who later turned into my first husband. He was 18 at the time. Well, I tagged along with him and my brother as they went to play raquetball. Inside the raquetball room the lights went out when the timer went off. It was dark and then smooch right on the lips. I remember my heart beating so fast I wanted to pass out.

I lost my virginity after watching the movie Endless Love at the theaters. We went and parked the car as we normally did to make out, LOL. Nothing like loosing your virginity in the back seat of a 69 Valiant. It had push button gears and was the oldest car Id ever seen in my life. I was still 14 at this time.

Well....later as with most anyone, unprotected sex leads to getting pregnant. I did at the age of 16 and married when I was 17. I have no regrets for that story in my life because I have my oldest son Brian whom I love very much. Abortion was NEVER an option for me.

Honestly I think the only thing I can remember about having sex for that first time is it kinda hurt. It's been so many years now and I don't remember if it was what I had expected or not.

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what! Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

OMG visuals!!

Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what! Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

lol i still walk like that janet lets just say my other half wasnt at the end of the queue when they were handing out mens making babies bits lol

my first kiss i was 15 and it was with my first real boyfriend. it was better than i had expected... it made me dizzy... and all that stuff they talk about in movies.

my first time i was 16 and with the same guy. not all that great... it was in his bedroom with his dad in the next room and the door open. and it hurt. it lasted about a whole 2 minutes.

i was with the guy for 3 years... so i think it was all worth it... nthing i regret

[Passionfruition]

LOL, this thread is fun to read. So, since I enjoyed everyone else's responses, here's mine:

My first kiss was at prom with a boy named James. I was 16 and in the 10th grade, and he was 17 and in the 11th. I was so nervous b/c I had braces and kinda felt silly that I was 16 and never had really kissed (made out/with tongue, etc.) before. It was fun and I told a friend it was "squishy". I, like many girls, fell in "love" with the first boy I kissed just for the fact that he was my 1st kiss, though he cheated on me a couple months later and I was HEARTBROKEN. lol. I recently found his profile on myspace and saw he got married in December, and I wish him nothing but the best. Funny how much we all grow up between 16 and 26!

Though I kissed many boys after James, my first time having sex was on my wedding night with my husband Eli - we were both 22. It was very strange....the wedding was a stressful process, though we were VERY happy to be married to one another (and still are) but I guess what can you expect the first time when it's the first time for both of you? LOL. But, of course, we have discovered that it gets better with practice. We both consider ourselves very lucky to have found, and waited, for one another, though I know most people don't anymore.

[Gina]

My first kiss was when I was dating my first love at the tender age of 14 1/2 . I remember being so nervous that I asked one of my girls friends older sister what to do? I never made out with a boy.. She was three years older than I and was hystercial , She explained how to french kiss and when I went out with my boyfriend for the first time I did it but I was very nervous.. lol. He was a doll.. too bad that we didn't married, but its funny I ran into him a few years ago and he said that I always hold a special place in his . I guess first loves leave an imprint lol

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it" is THIS what they all bragging about I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

That's hysterical Mandy! I am trying to remember if I have ever laughed after a kiss or not??