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Old 03-28-2007, 05:38 AM   #1
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Janet, my hubby snores too, so I know how crazy it can drive you in the middle of the night; and MINE is only home one or 2 nights a week!

I think if you want to sleep in separate rooms, then go for it. It certainly isn't helping your relationship or your health to sleep (or NOT sleep) next to his snoring. You might find you like him better once you're rested up and not resenting him for destroying your rest.

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Very well said Tink.
I have a big problem remembering to use any treatments I've bought or take any meds I should. Maybe he has the same problem, he just forgets to use the things he has to help?
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Old 03-28-2007, 06:12 AM   #2
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I'm sure he just forgets to use it. I don't think he'd be a jerk on purpose...at least I don't think he would.

I do sleep great when the boys are camping with scouts. I just sleep so much better and feel so refreshed in the morning. I'm not just going MOVE HIM OUT, we will discuss it (I'm still getting my way) LOL, but he'll at least think he agreed to it.

He has woke up before after I've started crying at being so tired and not able to go back to sleep. So he knows it's very important and how if affects me. I honestly do believe it will make things better in just everyday life, to have more restful sleep for the both of us.
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Old 03-28-2007, 06:28 AM   #3
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Oh, you haven't seen mad until you've seen me when I've been woken up. I don't know what it is, but this beast just comes out. Hubby knows not to mess with me when I'm sleeping. If he snored, he would have to nip that in the bud REAL quick. I am such a monster when I don't get enough sleep.

Janet, I don't blame you for getting upset about the snoring. For the sake of your marriage and your rest, he should get that under control or go sleep in another room.
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Old 03-28-2007, 06:33 AM   #4
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Thank you so much Rebecca!!! You don't know how much I appreciate knowing I'm not the only one. I was beginning to feel like a real b****, ya know? I don't mean to, but when my sleep is interrupted like that, it's horrible.
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Old 03-28-2007, 09:11 AM   #5
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I don't like for my sleep to be interupted either. There's nothing wrong with having him sleep in a different room as long as it's not out of anger. I have an aunt and uncle who each have their own room because he is very active while he sleeps. They don't seem to have any problems with it and even joke about it quite often. Just have a nice talk and explain it to him and I bet he'll move into the other bedroom with no problem.
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No, I would not make him move into another room over anger. We have never that I know of, gone to bed mad at each other in all these years. His grandparents slept in different rooms most of their married life because of his snoring. I'll just have to remind him of that. I really don't think he'll mind that much. He likes to be able to sleep without me poking him to quit snoring..
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My grandparents sleep in separate rooms bc of snoring. My dad used to snore and my mom told him to get it fixed or sleep in another room. My dad and went and got a sleep test done, got on a C-pap machine, and now my mom and dad both sleep in peace.

Janet, if he really doesn't want to sleep in separate bedrooms, tell him that it's fine, but he needs to get the snoring fixed. He should understand that you shouldn't have to suffer night after night.
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