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04-09-2007, 08:43 PM
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I think we've all felt like this at times in our lives....but the good news is, life does get better....even though you feel so trapped right now. I get to feeling overwhelmed with life in general when I don't take enough time off of work, or school (when I was in college) or whatever to do something I enjoyed. I look around my house and see MESSES and want to just crawl back in bed.
You should do something that makes you happy to be you. Do you have any hobbies you enjoy but don't get to do often? Listen to your favorite music, watch your favorite movie. Write a poem! (Well, those are things I do to "recharge" - as I call it.)
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04-10-2007, 12:21 AM
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You need to seriously talk to him, everyone needs space to do the things you want to do!! You owe it to yourself to be happy with who you are, so find a way and make time to be with family, and friends, they are important people in your life!
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04-10-2007, 05:39 AM
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I am a firm believer that things will never get better unless we are willing to make them better. As far as spending too much time with BF because he expects it....that needs to change quick. You have a life too, and you need to get out from under his thumb 24/7 and nurture you. No one can do that but you.
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04-11-2007, 06:01 AM
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thanx everyone... i've started going to the gym in the mornings... it helps me get some of the stress out, have some time to myself, and makes me feel better about myself.
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04-11-2007, 07:30 AM
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04-11-2007, 08:27 AM
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Please never feel as if you are alone - many of us have experienced what you are going through and of course we are always here to listen. I' am so happy to hear you are feeling better about yourself. That is really good news!
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04-14-2007, 05:41 AM
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The girls have all given you excellent advice. The key word here is that your 20 YEARS OLD... Go out and live your life how you want it. No one can make you do or say anything that you don't want to say or do. Happiness is a state of mind. Only you can control that.. Glad that you joined a gym, its a great stress reliever . Do whatever makes you happy in life.
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