Living Together Before Marriage?

[goofywife]

I was married before. When I met Adam, I lived in Texas he lived in OK. When we decied that we were done with the long distance thing, my family said live together don't get married. In fact they were pretty admit about it.

It really was't for me. If I wsas going to uproot my daughter and I from Texas and our family, it was only going to happen if we got married. So rather than make waves with my family, I said ok, we will just live together. Mean while we planned a small ceremony. Just us, the witness, and the preacher. We got married the weekend I moved up.

About a year later, my mom and sisters came to visit for my GF wedding. We were at the bridal shower and someone said, Who is the one who married Adam. Needless to say Mom and Sisters turned around looked at me and said "do you have something to tell us".

We have been married for 13 years now.