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Old 04-29-2007, 04:14 PM   #1
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I know, I wasn't out to meet a guy at all, I was out with my biking buddies. I never have anything to do with guys from bars, and I wouldn't have this time either if he wasn't a friend of the girl I knew. I'm just so frustrated. And the last time I saw him, I already had plans with the girls, which is why he came out to the bar to meet us. I just hope I never run into him again because I'd probably kick him where it hurts I know it's my fault too for going home with him that night. Live and learn I guess... I don't even know what made me do that in the first place.

Yes, Lindsey..no more going home with them. You are worth so much more than you're realizing. Make them want you for the kind person you are and then make them wait even longer...lol Keep that mystery alive.

There was this guy on Oprah just Friday talking about this subject and he was really, I thought, right on the money. Not sure if there is anything on her web-site but you might check it out. He was saying what guys really want in a girl, that they can tell most of the time what is fake and will just run with it.
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Old 04-29-2007, 04:23 PM   #2
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I'm usually such a strong person. I never do that, and I don't know what was going on. I told him on the way home "If you think you're taking me home because I'm going to sleep with you, you're wrong. And you better still call me even though you're not getting anything" and he laughed and said "Of course I don't expect you to sleep with me" I remember that CLEARLY. An hour after that I don't remember anything. I don't know, maybe all the alcohol hit me later... I'm usually in control, I don't know what I was thinking. I can't keep dwelling on it though, i've been beating myself up all day and I really feel like dirt. Well, I've been upset about it since Thursday morning, but finding out he has a girlfriend made it 10 times worse.
His best friend was with the girl I went to the party with. I just found out that his best friend is still dating a girl he's been with for a long time, but they're long-distance right now. So basically it's just a big group of cheaters. I told the other girl not to bother calling him anymore, and don't answer if he calls. I think I"m just going to surround myself with girl friends for a long long long time.
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Old 05-01-2007, 05:14 AM   #3
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I agree with janet. No going home with any guy, Lindsey, apart from you being better then that, it can be dangerous! We hear too many weird things, its just not safe.
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Old 05-01-2007, 05:28 AM   #4
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I know, and that's what I always preach to my friends.
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