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Old 05-03-2007, 09:57 AM   #1
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I do know Tink that when he was younger all three children had a savings account. Then after his mother died and his father remarried a woman with two children, they used up all three savings accounts. I guess he's just afraid of it being taken.

Even when we were cleaning out the house and flower shop, we took what we wanted and so did his brothers and sisters. But I keep finding all kinds of things that were basically junk out in his garage. Like a desktop phone, it was older but not dial and things like that. It's like he is afraid of losing something worth anything. He has a 4 car garage that we can't get a car into, because it's full of junk. I'm tired of it and hopefully will find a way out someday.

I've told him he must not care much about Ricky and I because if something would ever happen to him, we'd be left to clean up this stuff and not knowing what a lot of it is.
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Old 05-03-2007, 10:14 AM   #2
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hmmm.. I understand your angry Janet... hubby can get stubborn like that in certain ways sometimes... but (please don't take this the wrong way) but maybe that junk as you call it in his garage means something to him... memories .... I don't know just a outsider looking in...
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Old 05-03-2007, 10:26 AM   #3
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Well, I thought maybe that was it too, but the things we brought into our home have special memories. The stuff out in the garage is not things he grew up with, except maybe the phone, but eveything else was just stuff his parents had in their garage. Some is broken. I could see it if it was things he grew up with, but none of it is. He even has antique gas pumps from 10 years back that he was going to fix and sell, just like everything else, it gets shoved into the garage and never seen again. I just don't understand it. My house would look like that too, if I let him bring that stuff in here. No way...
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Old 05-03-2007, 11:45 AM   #4
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Hi Janet,

I'm sending hugs to you and prayers out for your happiness.

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Old 05-03-2007, 12:20 PM   #5
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Janet, i am sorry you are having to deal with this. Keep your head up high girl, and spend your hard earned money on your son, and yourself! If you need stuff for the house, use your joined account if you have one.

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Old 05-03-2007, 12:55 PM   #6
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Janet,
I'm sorry. Some people need to learn to consider other people's feeling too. Not much can be done if his mind is made up, but I'm thinking about you!!
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Old 05-03-2007, 03:39 PM   #7
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Thank you Judy, that's sweet of you.
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