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05-10-2007, 06:27 AM
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I have tattoos & like them. I'm wanting another one on my toe. I liked the cross, you showed a picture of on YT, is that the one you got. I'm not sure my hubby is thrilled about the thought of me getting another on my toe, but it's my body & if i want it so be it. I would just tell him that it makes you happy to express yourself in this way. Maybe mention that there are things that make him happy that you don't particularly care for, but you love hm & want him to be happy. I'd give it time, the shock may wear off. He just may be upset that he wasn't consulted about it before it happened. Since it's descreet & adorable I don't see what the big deal is.
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05-10-2007, 06:59 AM
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Well I am not a big fan of tattoos either and I do forbid my kids to get them. But you are an adult , and I guess you should have run it by him. But hey its your body... Just realize as you get older they do fade and everything does shift south. So think about it for the right reasons. Sorry I am no help.
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05-10-2007, 08:11 AM
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I would guess that you're husband is upset because you did it with friends and he didn't even know about it. The other 3 you had before but since you're married he probably would have liked to be informed or maybe with you when you had it done. You kinda' left him out. I would have been upset if my husband did something like that to me and I didn't know anything about it until it was already done. JMO
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05-10-2007, 12:37 PM
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i really didn't think it would bother him that much. i knew he would never get one but I didn't realize he would flip out if I got another one. We are fine now...we have spent the entire day together and it has not been brought up and we have had a great day. I think he will be ok in a few days.
I didn't do it thinking "let's see how mad I can make Jim."...I did it because it is something I have been wanting to do and it is just part of who I am.
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05-10-2007, 02:00 PM
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I am sorry you and your husband are in a disagreement over this.. As someone said earlier, its your body and if you wanted to get one thats fine... I guess you should ust waiting it out and be very sweet to hubby tonight and she if you can cheer him up!! I am sure he'll forget about it over time.. Good luck.. I bet the tattoo is beautiful... Don't you have a picture of it that you can post.. I would love to see it
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05-10-2007, 03:53 PM
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ok...here is a pic. I really need a tan so don't laugh
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05-10-2007, 04:42 PM
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I just saw it on YT and replied there!! Its a beautiful tattoo!! I hope your hubby grows to love it too!!
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