Upcoming wedding and counseling...

[Gina]

This is a real issue that you both better discuss before marrying. To ensure that you are both on the same page. Religion is very important and so it seems to your fiancee. Diana hit it right on the head, there will come a day that you will bring children into this world, and how you both want to raise them is very important.

You will be meeting with the preacher and I don't know why you feel that you will be embarassing her or yourself. All I can add to this is that you should not feel this way, no one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable. The preacher is there to listen not ridicule. This is the woman whom you love and will be spending the rest of your life with. She should not doubt your beliefs or force hers upon you. Best to iron it out now, she seems to have different expectations.

This is a personal feeling we all have with our relationships with God and our marriage. How everyone chooses to bring God into their marriage is of their beliefs. No one can answer the last question for you. I hope I made some sense, good luck to you.