What to do...

[Lindsey]

Well, I've been thinking for awhile that it might be number 2... I know he has had long relationships in the past, and then he didn't date at all for about a year. His last two relationships happened while I was friends with him and both lasted for only about a month. They just fought all the time. Right after we started dating I was talking to a friend on facebook about dating and she said she just can't stick with one guy for long, and I said something like "I know... I usually get bored easily, but right now things are going great with Kyle because we actually do things and don't just sit around every day. I'm not bored at all!" anyways.. I guess he read that and is paranoid that I'm getting bored of him. He always asks me if I'm dumping him, or if I'm bored of him yet. He's scared I'm just gonna all of a sudden decide he's not fun anymore and just leave him.

[Lindsey]

Oh, and I DO understand where he's coming from with her behavior being annoying... It's not so much a problem to me anymore because I've had her for a year and a half and I'm used to it. I babied her a lot when she was a puppy and she does want my attention all the time. I'm used to giving it to her. When I first got her it was difficult for me too. I wasn't used to a dog in my bed, on my couch, sleeping on my feet. She's just ALWAYS there. I understand that it bothers him. His dogs aren't even allowed in his room. I guess it's just our different views on animals... for him they're animals. For me they're little furry people with love and feelings. I don't know if this is going to work out long-term. I just know that right now I don't want to let it go when there's a little part of me that still thinks if we both make some comprimises, we will be okay.