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I am trying my best to be as patient as possible. I let him work, coz thats important too. But all the time??? THAT is a lil too much. Still i havent complained about it till now. Hope he himself realises what i am going through one fine day. Why do men start taking us for granted soon after marriage? He was NEVER ever like this before marriage. I used to be his first priority. But not anymore... Such a bitter bitter bitter bitter truth! |
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09-22-2007, 12:55 AM
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Dextress, be open with him, men dont think anything is wrong unless you tell them. Tell him, you feel neglected, and want more of hes time. Go out, and do things together, find a baby sitter for your daughter, find things that will bring back that "spark"
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09-22-2007, 01:13 AM
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Oh! thats the worst part u see. He knows everything...how i feel n all. but simply no improvement. His daughter n his work have the most importance.
I am leaving everything on time. Hope that helps. |
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09-22-2007, 05:12 AM
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09-23-2007, 06:21 AM
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hmmm..
that sounds interesting. will muster the courage sometime soon n do that. |
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09-23-2007, 08:40 AM
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Hope it helps! Good luck!
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That's how I do it when talking gets me nowhere. A letter can be read alone and the reactions aren't bounced off on you. He can absorb what you say in his own time, and then when you do talk about it, there's a lot less defensiveness and, hopefully more communication. It also does take time to get accustomed to babies, and real life. Marriage is a lot of work and has lots of ups and downs. Relax and enjoy the baby. Let him do what he needs to do for a while. You'll never have this time with the baby again. They grow so fast. You can talk to him any time! What is this website? Now, I'm curous.
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Yikes! I went to that forum. I got scared. I am a huge nerd and even I got scared!
Angie, we haven't peaked at nerdines yet.
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