It's going to be an awkward night

[judy]

Put on your red shoes Mama and get your young little butt back out there. If I have to do it, so do you! Anyway, these 2 guys are too into drama to be bothered with.

Do not play the victim, which is something we do as young women. Here's the truth - line up 10 men and bring in one woman. She can have any one of them she wants, even if it's only for one night.

Line up 10 women and bring in 1 man. If he's really really lucky, one or two might have a conversation with him.

We are not victims - they are at our beck and call. They do hav4 commitment issues, but if it's meant to be, they get over those issues at some point.