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02-18-2008, 08:56 AM
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Dealing with parents can be so demanding and I'm sorry that you're going through this. I can certainly relate because of the problems that I had with my Dad and, like you, my husband was my rock. He dealt with my Dad when he knew that I couldn't handle much more. You're more than welcome to come here and vent because we do understand. We might not have the right answers for you but we do understand.
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02-18-2008, 09:23 AM
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Thanks. Today is one of his good days so far. My dad and I have never been close. I took him in town so he could get his hair cut. I think most of the problem is not being able to get outside and go.
Thanks so much for the replies and the encouragement.
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02-18-2008, 10:30 AM
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My grandpa got really despressed after his stroke. He was always a farming man, very strong, independent & when he had to depend on others it just killed him. I think your dad is also going through some mental problems on top of this. It is very hard to give up a life you knew for some many years. I know dealing with them is not easy. But they need us now. You are in my thoughts & prayers that he allows you to help.
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02-18-2008, 10:43 AM
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It is so hard when you have to become your parent's caretaker. You're a good daughter to take him in even though you're not close. You will never have any regrets!
Bless your heart and come here to vent anytime.
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02-18-2008, 12:01 PM
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Linda, I'm sorry you're going through this. As you can see from everyone's posts, you are not alone and there is a lot of understanding here. I, too am going through this with my Mom. It can be so frustrating. One thing I make sure I do is 'take a break.' It can get overwhelming at times, but come here and vent all you need. We're here for you.
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02-18-2008, 08:29 PM
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You are getting some good advice and understanding. My mom had Alzheimers and it was so hard. My husband was my rock also. He was so good and so patient. He never complained about the time I had to spend helping her. When your father gets angry with you, know that it's not his true nature. It's the deteriation of age talking. It must be so frustrating to him to know he is declining. I know it was for Mother when she would have a lucid day and realize what was going on. It's a very frightening time for them and for you. You are in my prayers.
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02-19-2008, 02:42 PM
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Thank you all so much. I'm just grateful I can have him come up here and stay.
Thanks again. I know I sometimes sound like a broken record. You ladies are the greatest............
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