4WomenTalk Forums Community for Women  

4WomenTalk.com Home Forums Start Page Forums Chat Chat Frequently Asked Questions FAQ Member List Members List
Go Back   4WomenTalk Forums Community for Women > All Else > Vent!

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 03-16-2008, 04:45 AM   #1
Marilyn
Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member
 
Marilyn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: South Texas
Posts: 4,907
Oh, Traci, that is horrible!!! I've never been through anything like that, but I agree with Judy on her insight into your Ex. The children are better off without him, if that is how he is going to act. What he is showing them is not love, not a good parental example. It doesn't sound like he has anything good to teach them. I'd keep them away as much as possible.
__________________
Marilyn
If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32
Marilyn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-16-2008, 12:36 PM   #2
Mandy
Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member
 
Mandy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Who cares!
Posts: 4,587
Thats freaking cruel of him!
Shows you what kind of person he is, says more about him, and where he "came" from.
The kids are definatly better off without him in their life.
Give your little boy big hugs from us!
__________________
Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!
Mandy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-16-2008, 04:29 PM   #3
Gina
Donating 4WT 500 Club Member
 
Gina's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 6,025
Traci I agree with all the above posts, he doen't derserve to see them and if you permit vistations someone should be with him. He is poisoning their minds.. The children don't need him in their lives he is confusing them. I wish you luck for this is a hard situation...
Gina is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-16-2008, 04:55 PM   #4
AngieDoogles
Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member
 
AngieDoogles's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 6,509
Traci, I think he's proved over and over again that he doesn't deserve to be in their lives. He has caused them nothing but pain. You know this. Those kids are better off without him!
__________________
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT
AngieDoogles is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-17-2008, 07:43 AM   #5
DianaB
Moderator
Donating 4WT 13K Club Member
 
DianaB's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Kansas
Posts: 16,069
Traci, if there's any way to prevent this man from seeing your kids then I would do it, otherwise I would definitely have supervised visitation. You don't need him making accusations and having your kids upset at you when you've done nothing wrong. He is just trying to cause trouble for you and the kids. How cruel that he would tell your son that he is adopted when he's not! Make sure that you document everything that he says and does and the date in case you have to go to court over anything. You'll find that just a simple thing like writing down things can help so much if you ever need legal help.
__________________
*´¨)
¸.•´¸.•*´¨) ¸.•*¨)
(¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞


You and I are friends.......
Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up......

After I stop laughing!!!
DianaB is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 11:43 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.

Copyright ©2006-2008 4WomenTalk.com