Happy Easter Everyone !!!

[HALEY]

here is the letter:

Karen,

I’m sorry you and your family could not join Micah in celebrating his First Birthday. He had a great First Birthday party!

I would just like you to understand one thing; I have rules in my house and I would appreciate it if you would respect them. Please understand that I do not appreciate people coming over to my house when I am not home. If they would like to visit Micah when I am there, please have them call me and I would gladly set up a time for a visit.

By you and your family boycotting your Grandson’s First Birthday, please understand that you hurt YOUR son, Mike, and missed out on an important milestone of YOUR grandson’s life.

Now it is up to you! Are you going to exclude yourself from Micah’s life and watch from a distance? Or are you going to take an active part as a Grandmother in his life? It is your call!


Let me know.

[Janet]

Haley, I thought it was a great letter. Right to the point without name calling, accusations..etc. You did good girl.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by Janet

Haley, I thought it was a great letter. Right to the point without name calling, accusations..etc. You did good girl.

I really wanted to say more! But i didn't. I just can't believe the way there acting so childish.

[katcarasella]

Haley, your letter was great, you took the high road. You're a great Mom!!
Micah is a lucky little boy to have you for a Mom.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by katcarasella

Haley, your letter was great, you took the high road. You're a great Mom!!
Micah is a lucky little boy to have you for a Mom.

Thank you, i just got so sick of his family walking all over me. Micah was so sick that day, and she invited her family over there, and another thing while she is entertaining her family (and there drinking all my pop and eating my food too) no one is watching Micah !!! i am still so pissed off its unreal !!!

[HALEY]

OH and another thing too, some of the people that she invites to my home, don't ever come over when my husband and I are at home... that what really gets on my nerves too.. they eat all my left overs, drink everything in sight.. i just got so sick of it!

Ok i feel better now, got that off my chest !!!!

[DianaB]

I think that you did a good job on your letter too. It's very hard to write a letter when you're upset but it turned out well. I'm sorry that you're having troubles with your in-laws. I have trouble with mine too. Any more I just keep my distance. I hope that your Mother-in-law gets over it and things are better between the two of you. Good luck!

[Janet]

Originally Posted by HALEY

I really wanted to say more! But i didn't. I just can't believe the way there acting so childish.

Sometimes Haley, that by sticking to the main point, you can actually say more my saying less.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by Janet

Sometimes Haley, that by sticking to the main point, you can actually say more my saying less.

your right Janet, it's just bugging me, i have to learn to let things go sometimes, my child is surrounded by people that love him dearly, and i Thank God for my family and friends.