i'm done trying !!

[judy]

I'm so sorry Haley. It's rough going through a marriage ending.

My daughter was 7 months old when her father and I split up. I have to say that I was much happier. I also would not have wanted my daughter to grow up in such a negative home.

On the other hand, maybe you two can work it out.

I'll pray for you.

I am so sorry and that was just a hurtful thing to do on his part.
I would try to put it behind me and just move on, because dwelling on it will just hurt even more. (( hugs )) to you .... Janie

[goofywife]

He just couldn't handle you being nice to him. His loss.

[Gina]

Haley I feel bad you are trying he is not, like Michelle said he can't handle it. The ball is in your court now only you know what is best. One good thing Haley is that if you end your marriage you can say I tried and that is a good feeling. Good luck!

[Janet]

Sorry you're going through this Haley. No one knows but you how much you are willing to take. You'll need to carefully evaluate how you really feel and know you probably won't get much help from him once he's gone.

[Dobie]

Sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time. But I think you should feel good about yourself - it takes a big person to take the moral high ground, and getting him something for his birthday and trying to have a good day for your son, was taking the high ground.

[Marilyn]

Haley, so sorry you are going through this. By the way he's acting, I'd be suspicious. Are you sure he's not fooling around??? He's acting like he's trying to convince himself that you are somehow to blame. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say. I've just seen so many people who were doing wrong and were trying to convince themselve that it is the other person's fault, that they strayed. Be careful and consider what we've all said to you before & you always have us to turn to. We care very much about you and your little boy. Take care of yourself!!!! and stay strong!!!